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I feel neglected....

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Submitted by Overwhelmed in Texas on Sat, 08/04/2007 - 8:20pm

....more and more lately I just feel like he married me because that is his nature, he wanted a wife to help take care of his children and run his household and that was his primary goal....in general he pays attention to me when he wants something or needs help with something...but I don't feel loved, or cherished or romance...this is probably why folks have affairs...at least during that time, you focused totally on each other, then you get married and it stops...

I'm just venting....and feeling lonely with a house full of people, ironic isn't it?

Almost, but not quite alone...

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Submitted by Overwhelmed in Texas on Fri, 08/03/2007 - 5:26pm

So, summer visitation is over and the ex- finally is back on her visitation schedule. Just an fyi, we have custody of the kids cause she is such a mess she lost custody.

Anyway, so it starts out a mess as usual, she forgot to pick them up from school. School calls and they finally find her and she gets the girls. They are with her alllllll weekend! Unless she kicks one out, which is a regular occurence.

Answer choices: A. The stepkids B. Your husband C. The ex-wife

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Submitted by Overwhelmed in Texas on Thu, 08/02/2007 - 7:08pm

Question - Which of the following causes the most trouble and stress in your marriage...

A. The stepkids....you just really don't like them and they are unpleasant to be around....

B. Your husband, it isn't really the kids that are stressful, its his inablity to manage them

C. The ex-wife....she is a pyscho bitch who has a vendetta and is out to ruin your new family unit at any cost...including the welfare of the kids....

(my vote will come later)

Homer Simpson

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Submitted by Overwhelmed in Texas on Wed, 08/01/2007 - 2:51pm

I went to see the new 'The Simpsons' movie last night...just wanted to get a break and see something silly....

so I'm watching the movie and I'm having dejavu...I could feel the hair rising on the back of my neck and I got this scary feeling inside...and then I finally realized what it was..

Homer Simpson is my husband! ARRGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!

I mean really...he is absent minded, doesn't listen when I talk to him, would rather play with the kids than manage them, forgets everything and when I get mad he says cutsie things and just like Marge...I forgive him!

I'm really tired tonight...

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Submitted by Overwhelmed in Texas on Mon, 07/30/2007 - 10:00pm

It wasn't really a bad day, I mean nobody got into any trouble, the kids all got along with each other, it's just that its sooooo much work....there is no life left for me anymore...from the moment I walk through that door its work, work, work. Tonight we had 7 kids in the house, 5 of them his and 2 of mine, I always feel outnumbered...we finally have everyone in bed, but the house is a wreck...and I just don't feel like picking it up....

Today is just as hard as yesterday....

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Submitted by Overwhelmed in Texas on Sat, 07/28/2007 - 8:34pm

I found this website today and I'm hoping somehow there is something or someone here that will help me get through this difficult time...I don't want to give up on this marriage, but I never dreamed it would be so hard...its only two years and it is already falling apart...what were we thinking...

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