BOY has it been rough w/all this stuff recently. His parents seem to have forgotten to get SD back to her mom, her mom seems to have forgotten about her...and I'm standing firm on my "I'll deal w/EOW only".

First off....the two weeks in June-now these two weeks-then his parents decide to take SD out of town w/them this week (makes 5 already) -you would THINK the mom would get her this past wknd (her normal scheduled wknd) at least...NOPE! She came to pick her up for a cpl hrs Sat to take her to a bday party of some other friend and kid (aka-needed a trophy kid w/her)-and promplyt brought her back-you would think she'd make a wknd of it-but apparently I guess she's decided not to deal w/custody she signed up for-or take the summer off, who knows.

THEN stupid idiot BM asks SD about her 4th..and goes on to VOLUNTEER that she (BM) went with a friend and their kids to an amusement park (to which SD and BM have season passes). Do you THINK she couldn't have taken her D w/her for the 4th at least since she went w/other friends and their kids? Or at least not told her that? How idiotic is this woman?

Poor SD only told her dad later, it's ok I understand, I'm not mad. You know, like the misplaced loyalty that neglected/abused have w/their f'ed parents.

Anyways-her newest victim is a male, seperated, because him and BM are involved. SO she will get the ex-wife from HELL that blames her and the guy has TWO young girls...yipeee!!! I HOPE she pays dearly! lol-of course she will bail after she feeds her drama supply for the next few months-onto the next drama driven guy or woman-gotta keep the drama junkie/narcissism supply going dont'ya know? But you can imagine, will have an exwife and two GIRLS that will blame BM for their family and add SD in the mix...it will be hell..hey maybe that's why she isn't having anytime w/her own kid.

Oh-and bf had firmly reminded his parents-he had not made previous agreement to this now whole summer agreement thrown around by them and BM-and that it went from two weeks-to four ...and now 5...and since they made the "OK" they need to ensure BM got her this wknd-which would have been her wknd-well they didn't.

So Bf pretty much spent the wknd w/me-we only entertained one text from his dad Sunday early saying they had to go shopping for a bit and was he coming over to get SD.
The answer was a "wasn't planning on it-i already told you about this wknd". Good for him. They say, don't worry about it-we'll have her and won't bother you and then make multiple calls to have him pick up the visitation that he DID not agree or even discuss with BM. It's madness i swear-at least I'm not in the middle anymore. They do not understand boundaries and sticking to CO and forcing BM to own up and step up to the custody arrangement she wanted. They make it wonderful and easy for her to be a deadbeat custodial parent. WTH???

I joked to bf-he should have texted: Sorry-busy right now-maybe you can call BM and see if she wants to babysit her own child while you guys go shopping. He busted out laughing at that one. For real!!

OH-and my bios are out of town w/my family this week-they do this once a year....so I get a stress/calm week...which was SO needed! I can't wait!