I am so upset for my SO that if I sit here long enough I could just cry. He and his ex wife have had the same weekend rotation with SS5 for years. Long enough that BM KNOWS which weekends he is supposed to have. Well, she calls last night to inform him she "got the weekends mixed up" and planned his birthday party for the weekend we're supposed to have SS5.......in AUGUST!!!!!! So SO told her she just needed to switch it to her weekend. She is, naturally, refusing and said he just needs to deal with it and take vacation time for work and switch weekends (he would have to take vacation time because the weekends he doesn't have SS5, he works, thats how his rotations go at work, he has to work every other weekend). That's not the point, she didn't "get the weekends mixed up" she knew exactly what she was doing because that Friday of that weekend we are supposed to have him is his actual birthday and God Forbid should any one else have "her baby" except for her so she puposely scheduled his birthday that weekend so she could keep him from us. That's the evil we deal with constantly. So SO kindly informed her that she knows that's our weekend and she has plenty of time to fix it since it's not until mid-August so if she doesn't change her date, he'll be at her house, papers in hand, and having the cops write up a report that she's refusing contact with SS5.

This is so unfair, she will never look outside her little universe and realize there are so many other people in this world that love and care for SS5 than just her and her mom. Another sad split family situation on top of the millions already being dealt with around the world.