What a weekend!
It started Friday night. I went to bed early. DH got a phone call from SD16's BM just going off on him. Basically being her psycho self, accusing him of things he hasn't said or done and then starts in on me. He was supposed to let the pup come after thanksgiving but didn't because of me. He told her that it was all him but "she knew the truth". He told her she was crazy and delusional to which she hung up. I made it clear to DH that if SD and BM don't keep me out of things I would personally tell them both to not even mention EVER!
It gets better.
SD16 told her mom about my family's Christmas and how SD wanted to go. She evidently loves my family, thinks the world of my mom and of me. DH fell for thus hook, line, and sinker. I could smell the crap from 4 hours away. What a crock of manure!! Pretty much told DH that SD has a funny way of showing it.
Even better.
SD shaves, I mean bare skin shaved, one side of her hair without either of her parents knowing. They are not happy with Christmas less than 2 weeks away. I told DH that I'm glad SD is not coming for my family's Christmas. He agreed.
Wait for it.
At 3:12 this morning, DH gets a call from SD. I'm awake at this point too. SD missed her curfew by 2 hours and now BM is reading her the riot act. SD wanted DH to come get her. DH refused. She wanted to escape from punishment. This afternoon SD texts DH wanting him to come get her cuz her mom is on her case or won't let her do somthing or who knows what. SD is coming for a couple of days for Christmas starting tomorrow evening. DH told SD she can just stay with her mom until tomorrow and take her lickings. Told DH how proud I am.
The bright side. I will be spending Christmas with DH without SD. Merry Christmas to me!!!
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Going to be clear again about
Going to be clear again about the pup. DH has not wanted the pup here either. It's not like he is telling them no because of me when he really wants to say yes. He has not wanted pup here since she got it. Before I even said anything.
The end.
When any ahole calls to rant
When any ahole calls to rant the only appropriate response is "click".
I WILL NOT listen to anyone yelling at me. I will listen to a complain or concern delivered in a rational manner. And will even apologize and admit guilt when I am wrong. But try to yell and scream at me and I will adamantly refuse to listen to one word.
I have a feeling she will
I have a feeling she will show up at your family Christmas gathering anyway. This is just her trying to piss all over your territory. The dog and everything.
Just be prepared for any eventuality. Anticipation is the name of the game.
I was shocked myself. Even
I was shocked myself. Even his mom told him she was proud of him. He told me that the days of driving 4 hours in the middle of the night are over (except if SD's lying in a hospital).
Sounds like he's had enough. He was going on yesterday about how when they want something from him it's expected but when he asks anything of them it met with opposition. That he's tired of being the bad guy when he doesn't do what they want.
Oh, he was ranting and raving yesterday and it wasn't directed at me. I was the best wife ever.