Both sd8 and bs10 will be with their other bioparents this Thanksgiving. Dh and I have arranged to do our family Thanksgiving the following Sunday so our kids can celebrate with us. Little did I know, Dh already gave Bm the go ahead to travel several states away with sd8,by car. Dh emailed Bm making sure she would have sd8 back to us early on that Sunday afternoon,so she can participate in the dinner.

I am disgusted right now because we were out looking for our Halloween costumes. Sd8 already has one that she will wear,but as soon as we got to the store,the whining began. Dh almost bought her another one. Why the heck would she need or deserve 2 different costumes? Sd8 blew it though. She made dh mad and he refused to get it for her. Absolutely ridiculous the way these dh's indulge their bratty daughters

Sd8 has a religious celebration in the spring as well as a bday this winter. I requested that we do separate parties from bm. Dh doesn't want to "talk about it right now,it's months away". From my point of view, i don't think divorced couples who are both remarried should do joint parties. I attended one last year for sd8 bday and was uncomfortable to say the least. Bm is not a good person, cheated on dh twice,and got pregnant. I don't want to be around her. I have made my preference known,but dh is avoiding it. Not sure where to go from here....

I am so thoroughly annoyed with dh. He was complaining to me during a disagreement we were having the other night, saying that I "don't make an effort to do activities with sd8". He said that he does things with my son,which is true,but only in short spurts. It's not like he spends a ton of time doing things with him. I'm pissed because I do a lot of kind gestures for sd and it seems to go unnoticed,or dh complains that I'm not making an effort. Sd8 isn't a bad skid,but she is a whiny,picky brat at times,and I really don't want to go out of my way to do activities with just her.