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Submitted by nodramastepmama on Thu, 10/27/2011 - 2:04pm

So we signed SS7 up for hockey this year. Normally his mom signs him up because it says in our order that she pays for all extra-curricular and sporting activities. Well, she kept putting it off to sign him up, SS7 loves hockey, so we just went ahead and signed him up ourselves and paid for it. This is his 4th year in hockey and his mom has supported him all the other years.

Legal Question!

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Submitted by nodramastepmama on Tue, 10/25/2011 - 11:07am

Does anybody know how to obtain past court records? We are at our wits end with SS7's mother and we are in the process of getting all of our stuff together to take her back to court. We have some real dirt on her that was exposed in her first child custody case and we're trying to get a copy of it! She admitted something in court but was never charged with anything, so we're wondering if that is still public record? Anybody know? We're new to this stuff!

Need Some Advice

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Submitted by nodramastepmama on Wed, 09/21/2011 - 2:17pm

SS7's mother is a raging psycho. I've talked about her in my previous blogs and it just never seems to end. You would think that my FDH and her were married for 20 years, not dated for 6 months! She still holds this huge grudge with him and hated his ex-wife and hates me-for NO REASON!

SWEET SUCCESS! Came as a total surprise! My emails with BM1

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Submitted by nodramastepmama on Thu, 08/25/2011 - 4:16pm

**********The first email I sent to her:
BM1,
Before I get into this, I want you to know that FDH had NOTHING to do with this, in fact, he has NO idea I’m even writing you this email. I guess I just wanted to kind of clear the air, and try to make things better. First of all, I want to sincerely congratulate you and your boyfriend on your engagement! That’s great, and I’m so happy for you AND SD4! Your boyfriend seems like a very nice guy and SD4 talks about him a lot and really loves him!

What to do????

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Submitted by nodramastepmama on Wed, 08/24/2011 - 4:18pm

Alright, so I've been contemplating this for awhile but don't really know how to go about it! The BM of SS4 really hated me in the beginning of my relationship with FDH. For the past 6 months she's been ALOT better about tolerating me. She went from not wanting me to be around BB4 to actually dropping her off with me without FDH around. She just got engaged this past weekend and I've been thinking for awhile that it'd be nice to clear the air with her.

How to Get Custody in ND-it's impossible if you're a MAN!

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Submitted by nodramastepmama on Tue, 08/16/2011 - 10:40am

So, this has been an ongoing battle for about 7 1/2 years now! My SS7's BM is probably one of the most incompetant parents I've ever heard of! She never has her son, he's always with her parents, and if her parents can't watch him, she'll make up some excuse to us so that we have him. Which is great, because we want him as much as possible, but she is CONSTANTLY using him as a pawn.

Sooo Beyond Frustration

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Submitted by nodramastepmama on Thu, 08/11/2011 - 2:07pm

*I'm new to this blog, so if this is a little lengthly I apologize! They will be much shorter in the future!*

I seriously feel sometimes that my only job when the kids are with us is to cook, pick them up, and clean. Other than that, I'm basically invisible. It all started the other night with me picking up SD4 at daycare and brining her to swimming. My FDH met us there with SS7. I went to sit down to watch SS4 and SS7 and FDH were sitting in the only 2 seats available in the front row. So where does that leave me? To sit in the row behind them, by myself!