Ok im about to loose it...
Today the FH is talking about going to the Ex step daughters graduation..The one i wasnt invited to...Asking me what should he wear....Should he go buy something to wear?? And i said i dont guess you have the money since your paying for a 200.00 cell phone bill that is hers....He is tryin to rub it in my face...Or feels like he is...Im gonna go out of town this weekend..He can go to graduation and me and my girl friends are out of here...Ive had enough of the Ex and her children....I have alot to think about...
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Yes you do
and be thankful that you have choices!
Question: How much is he giving to SD20 for her graduation gift?
OH WELL
Their is no telling...i would ask but getting the truth is a different story....Its is also her birthday that day.....So i guess i better go buy some Bread and Bologna for all of us to eat this week......
Im done with this crap
Ive had enough of him and the ex step kids
I applaud you
...for having the guts to consider your own future! You have a lot of people here who support you and wish you all the best.
I'm sure BF will have a wonderful life with his Princesses. And you will have a wonderful life without all the heartache and the drama.
I agree 2000000% with Sarah101!
As I had said to you and others, if ONLY I knew other people
were going thru all this nonsense as I was, WOW, would I have made changes BEFORE I said "I do!!" Or, I would have left skidmarks in getting the hell away from these loonies.
I've laid some SERIOUS "last chance" statements to my H, but I
know full well, as Sarah and others will confirm, that if I go thru with a divorce NOW, I'm gonna lose my shirt. It will not be pretty for anyone.
YOU HAVE CHOICES NOW. If he's not upfront with you NOW, he's not going to magically "change". As Sarah said, you will MOVE one and create a NEW LIFE with someone who is CAPABLE of being a TRUE PARTNER. You're in third place right now. And that SUX.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."-Eleanor Roosevelt
Nicole-go girl-go be with your friends. And while you're out
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
there, look around. There are plenty of other men in the world-some who actually value a woman-look at RAGS for example.
Kittykat-what are we going to do, girl? Got ourselves boxed in where we face financial ruin from divorce, or mental breakdown from staying. A hell of a choice.
You've been with this guy
You've been with this guy for 5 years now, right? Are these girls just lately becoming a problem for you or have you been dealing with this anger for the whole 5 years?
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"
Clear your mind, go out and
Clear your mind, go out and have fun. Don't ruin a weekend with the girls because of him, while thinking about your next step in life remember to enjoy it as well.
"Step in life"...that is pretty good. Considering the community
And I agree. Don't let the ass ruin your weekend.
Best regards,
Go....Have FUN and forget that
stupid idiot!
When in doubt
about a man and the lifestyle he will bestow upon you, RUN. It is your gut talking to you. Usually our gut has better sense than we do.
When in doubt
about a man and the lifestyle he will bestow upon you, RUN. It is your gut talking to you. Usually our gut has better sense than we do.
I am gone this weekend...
Well i confronted him last night about the ex step daughters phone bill and the life insurance policy being in his ex step daughters names......and of course he just sits there and looks at me...and yes i have dealt with this mess for 5 years now...This is nothing new...Up until about 2 years ago the youngest would come to his apartment and go eat and sometimes stay over...I thought that was crazt...and he would say she is my daughter....so oh well...And yes, im gonna go away this weekend with my girlfriends...I have waisted enough of my time worrying..I have lost my self in this and im not getting any younger and my daughter is growing before my eyes..I have waisted enough of my time and my daughters time trying to keep the peace with this man...And for what?? Running in 3rd place to these ex step daughters isnt getting me anywhere....
Thanks to all......
Im so glad that i stumbled across this sight....Im not really a step parent ( i guess, i dont knwo anymore) but im a mother and i know how people should be treated...I thought it was common sense to know how to treat people...Thanks to everyone for all your help...
I feel for you....
I really feel for you...It's sucky enough having to put up with the crap from kids that are our DH's..But to have to go through this crap with kids that are not even his???? I couldn't imagine..And I have to also say that your much kinder than I am because I flat wouldn't do it at all.
I have alot of admiration for you and it's too bad that this idiot can't see how lucky he is to have you..It's beyond time he leave his past marriage and his ex wives kids in the dust if he wants to move on to a new life with you! Sounds like he is trying to stand on both sides of the fence...
In a perfect world their would be retroactive abortion capabilities. ~disgusted