I know but BM is on my facebook page to be civil, she asked me to be her friend. I need to delete her off, it's hard to ignore b/c of the wall post page where it tells you updates on everyone. It's not jealousy it's anger b/c she makes our life a living hell and now she is having so many good things happen for her. I'm glad she gets so much extra money per month to do whatever she wants which means that FH has to work one week per month almost with no pay. If her husband is who SS9 calls Dad and BM makes it impossible for FH to be part of his life then she should have her husband adopt. But she won't, why....b/c she wants the extra money. I wish we had enough money to take her to court and fight for visitation. She makes me sick!

You are also right, no one is really honest on their personal pages. BM wanted everyone to believe that her life was perfect before and her husband was on the verge of walking out the door.

herewegoagain, I know what you mean. I got to hear about BM using all her tax return money (ya know what the govt gives to help you support your child) on home improvement so SHE could buy a bigger house. I'm just like you, I haven't bought myself anything in forever. I just can't afford it. It makes me so mad!

I know the money is suppose to go to help raise the child and I am sure it all does in some way. BM has never given FH credit for the money he has paid over the years thousands of thousands of dollars in CS. She tells everyone that she did it ALL ON HER OWN with no help. Um, not really witch. haha.

SnowBunny, that is what I am hoping for, that her husband will adopt. FH doesn't have rights now, she was just trying to manipulate FH by saying he had rights. I told her we had known ALL along that he never had rights. But if her husband adopts then the child is HIS responsibility and if they divorce, which is the only reason I think he won't do it b/c he just left a few weeks ago but took her back, he will then have to pay. It is only right for him to do it anyway, he married her and vowed to spend the rest of his life with her and the child. FH came back in to try and do the right thing and BM stepped on him again. If she can't act civil and have FH be his father then she needs to make the second step in assuring her child always has a father. I think that would bother me if my child didn't have a father listed on his birth certificate. I know it will bother SS9 when he gets older and has to give his birth certificate for a job, marriage, ect and he doesn't have a father listed. But I know she won't, she is too money grubbing to do something like that. They can just go back to being one little happy family where her husband is the daddy and FH (meaning we) get to give them our money b/c she is a selfish witch.

Thanks everyone, I feel much better!!!