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Why can't I speak up?!

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Fri, 09/23/2011 - 5:01pm

And on the same note why should I have to say certain things!?
Here's what happened. After last weekend and this week I NEEDED my SD10 out of my hair for a day. So she's spending the night at BMs. I noticed as she's leaving she is yet again wearing MY clothes. I say, "Why are you wearing MY stuff to your moms?" SD10, "Oh I forgot this is yours" My SO, " You didn't notice she wore all this to school? Make sure to bring all her stuff back" Ugh, WTF?! I was so stunned I couldn't formulate something fast enough. And why would my SO think that's ok!? This little snot had already gotten on my last nerve. I bet you anything I never see that stuff again except for on her moms facebook page. She just loves getting her hands on my stuff and I'm sick of seeing MY stuff on that b*tch. No wonder I'm running out of clothes. Guess he's taking me shopping if its no big deal for her to take and ruin all my stuff. I know this is a somewhat small thing but ever heard of the straw that broke the camels back?

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Fri, 09/23/2011 - 5:45pm

I'm not sure its clear enough to him. Otherwise I can't see him letting her leave. If roles were reversed he would be pissed. This issue is not over. When she comes back without my stuff I'm going to make a HUGE fuss.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Fri, 09/23/2011 - 6:33pm

Are you saying your 10 year old SD and her mom both wear your clothes???

Or do you mean SD is wearing her clothes that you paid for to BM's?

Who is the bitch wearing the clothes in the pictures on facebook?

I'm so confused.LOL

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Fri, 09/23/2011 - 7:29pm

Yes, my SD10 and her mother wear my stuff. Her mom posts all these pics of herself in MY CLOTHES. Eww eww. Then I don't want the stuff back because SHE was wearing it.

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Fri, 09/23/2011 - 8:44pm

Glad I'm not the only one who thinks so. I find it absolutely gross to. SD10 fits my clothes, her mom stretches them out so bad. She's a good 40-50 lbs heavier.

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Submitted by CalgonTakeMeAway on Fri, 09/23/2011 - 8:52pm

:jawdrop: Come on...does the woman have NO self respect? Oh wait, she probably doesn't! That is just SOOOO wrong! Maybe somebody should point out that what they're doing is STEALING! Oh, and ewwwwwwww... :sick:

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Submitted by shielded2009 on Fri, 09/23/2011 - 9:48pm

That's nasty...

And where are the boundaries? Why does SD feel comfortable about being in your space? That's disrespectful as hell, IMO...

Matter of fact she wouldn't even be allowed in my damn room...

SO should be doing something about that...That's hella nasty...

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Fri, 09/23/2011 - 10:01pm

This is sooo not cool!! Explain to your SO the true issue of her wearing your clothes. You should never take without asking, so why should his daughter be allowed to take it. And to be on the safe side and avoid further confusion, start marking your stuff with your initials on the tag, so there's no more excuses for "oh didnt realize that was yours". Also tell him you're running out of clothes and suggest a shopping trip on his wallet for you and SD. This way she can get similiar clothes at the same time and doesnt have to wear yours.
If it persists start putting your stuff under lock and key.