Sometimes I feel as though my Husband thinks his daughter is perfect and it makes me SO angry! I'll be the first to admit that my BC are not by any means perfect and I'm sure that they annoy both my husband and my SD9 sometimes. My BC are just so different from my husband and his daughter, especially my boys. My husband and his daughter are the quiet, laid back type who are usually fine if they're just left alone to play video games or watch Spongebob. My BS8 and BS4 are honest boys and like to wrestle and well... be BOYS. Trust me when I say that I watch my boys closely to make sure they don't get out of control, in fact I don't allow the wrestling. This morning though SD9, BS8 and BS4 decided that they all wanted to play a video game together and so they needed my husband's game controller to all play at the same time. My husband thought it would be funny to hide the controller from my BS4 and listen to him scream and hunt for it although he was holding it and hiding it from him. I listened to it go on for like 15 minutes before finally asking my H if he was enjoying himself. My BS4 got to the point where he was SO frustrated that he said something that made my H mad and he made a comment about it. I tried to point out that he's only 4 and what did he expect when he was deliberately hiding the controller. He finally called BS4 in and gave him the controller and my BS4 told him in a happy voice thank you. I then asked my H what was the point to listening to him for 15 minutes and he said he was just teasing him and that he does the same kind of thing to his daughter. I pointed out that he hasn't been doing that kind of thing to his daughter lately because she's been acting almost like she's better than all of us and she cries and puts on a show if anybody teases her. SD9 openly doesn't like my BS4 and everytime he tries to play with her or tickle her, she moves away from really fast with a disgusted look on her face. She scrunches her nose and just the way she looks at him makes me want to scream. Sometimes I wonder if my H maybe harbors a little resentment toward my BS4 because his dad was the one who abused me for 4 years and sometimes tries to use BS4 to continue to control me... all I know is SD9 is starting to irritate the crap out of me. Until yesterday I thought I was alone. Now today I'm hoping someone can relate to how I feel.