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My insanity's picture

I am so glad I found this site. I am loving it so far. Being a stepmom is the hardest thing I have ever done.

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bama step mom's picture

Welcome to the best site to vent! I just found this site a week ago too and I love it. It's nice to know that there are other stepmom's out there that feel the same way as you do. So what's your story?

*bama step mom*

LVmyBOXERS's picture

Glad to have you here. I have only been here for about a month and I am totally in love. I wish I found it years ago!

Cheerful1384's picture

Claire! Where did you find that picture of that woman in the dress??? I absolutely LOVE IT. I think it symbolizes me and my life right now!! I would love to know how to find it! Thank you!!

My insanity's picture

email me at mopow@myway.com and I will send it to you

As the curtain closes on all I have attempted to do and be; I want to look into your eyes and see that I mattered. Not what I looked like. Not what I did or how much money I made. Not even how talented I was. I want to look into the teary eyes of someone

My insanity's picture

I have been married for six years. I have one stepson who is now 11. BM is truely crazy.
*She has been married three times (DH was the first lasted one year)*had a child with second husband, divorced him keeps his daughter from him
* married third, got pregnant lost the baby left him a year and half ago not divorced
* living with new guy about a year.
*She manipulated SS, keeps him upset. At the present we are dealing with him having fears that if he is not with his BM she is going to be in an accident or something and die. Feels the same when he is not with his dad.
SS lives 90 miles away. We get him every holiday, every week end and any time he wants to come up. And ALL summer. DH dives to get him from school on Friday's and drives him back to school on Monday. All she want is the CS.
We used to never get him. DH was going to take her to court to have a parenting plan done since divorce was done when SS ws one year old and after that about a year and half ago we started getting him more.
I love my SS but he is spoiled and immature and is learning how to manipulate from his mom, so having him around ALL the time drives me nuts. I know this all probably seems silly, but I have horror story from over the last six years that would make Mother Teresa swear!! At this point I just look foward to him growing up and her going away.

fedupinarkansas's picture

to the family.

How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these

LVmyBOXERS's picture

your quote!