I am so sick of the Skid's BM lately. They live with us full-time along with my 3 kids. A few months ago she complained to their dad about what we provide them for school lunches, (which was wrong, the kids misinformed her), yet 9 out of 10 times they come back from spending the weekend with her having not had dinner that night, and they get home around 8:30-9pm! She's got some nerve! Twice now SD has gotten hurt on BM's weekend and BM didn't bring her to be checked out. So of course I have to juggle MY schedule to get SD to the doctor since BM just can't be bothered with any type of responsibility! OH then there is our family trip we have planned. BF informed BM MONTHS ago that we are going away for Spring Break. She is supposed to have Skids on Easter. We will be back by then, plan to get the Skids to her so she doesn't even have to meet us 1/2 way like we usually do, she had no problem with that so it was agreed that was what was happing. Now suddenly she wants them in the middle of the week to go to her parent's to visit, (BM isn't going, it would just be the Skids). Not happening! I am not cutting my vacation short with MY family (my dad, brother, SIL, and niece are going too), because she wants to change her plans. Sorry, you get them for Easter, and that's not til that Sunday! No where in the agreement does it say she gets them for Spring Break, so tough! We have changed plans so many times before for her, and are usually happy to do so, but not this time!