I have been re-married for a year and a half now and we have four kids between the two of us.(BS12, BD9, SS12.5, SD10.5) Mine live with us and go to their BF every other weekend. DH gets his kids every weekend except the first weekend of the month. During the week things are great.....life rolls on like it should. Once the weekend comes around my DH changes completely. He becomes inseparable from his kids and I become the outsider. When the skids arrive everything turns into kiddie fun house.