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Kid moving in or not.........am I invisible?

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Submitted by moz15 on Fri, 11/01/2013 - 11:03am

Well, just a lil follow up from my post from yesterday in regards to skid 13 requesting to move in and his mother also requesting him move in because she just can't deal with him anymore............

Over heard my husband tell his siblings last night at a Halloween party that he told his EX that his son could move in!!?? WTF! We have not even spoke two words about this!! NOT ONE! All he did was tell me that the witch called and that was her request.

DH's ex calls and says their son need to move in with us

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Submitted by moz15 on Thu, 10/31/2013 - 10:36am

:jawdrop:

Last night my husband gets a phone call from his ex wife. She says she is no longer "jiving" with their 13 year old son and it would be best if he moved in with us. I was so shocked that I could not have a real conversation with my husband about this at that particular time!

First off, I am working very hard day to day on my marriage! The last thing I need is this child to move in with us and stir everything up. He has issues. Issues that his mother and father created. I am terrified that if he moves in with us that my marriage will be a wrap!

Update on husband driving 2 hours each way to help with kids

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Submitted by moz15 on Tue, 09/10/2013 - 11:15am

So, this past weekend he was pissed off at me for 1. Not going to his kids soccer and volleyball games (4 hours round trip) on my weekend OFF from my bios. 2. I was not showing enough pissed offness at the fact that his ex won't come 2 hours our way to pick up her kids on Sunday. To fill you guys in..........he drives 4 hours round trip Tuesday and Thursday to the skids to play sports with them. Saturday he does the same thing.......only the skids come home with him and we are supposed to bring them 1 hour away(1/2 way) to meet the ex on Sundays.

Hanging with his kids at his ex-wife's house

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Submitted by moz15 on Thu, 09/05/2013 - 2:11pm

My husband has decided now that his kids are 13 and 11 to go help them with school, sports etc after school. Sounds wonderful doesn't it?? Well, the kicker is the fact that they live 2 hours away from us and he is going there every other day. He plays with them outside and then goes inside his ex-wife's house to help out with homework etc. Keep in mind the ex is single. I expressed my opposition to this and of course it turned into me being irrational. I mean, how could I ever think doing all these wonderful things with your kids as a bad thing!!???

SS 13 going on 5

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Submitted by moz15 on Mon, 05/20/2013 - 10:59am

I know this topic probably comes up a lot and I guess I just need to do a little venting??? My SS who is 13 was showing some signs of improvement for a couple weeks then like a light switch.........regressed back to a 5 year old. I don't get it?? My worry is that something might have happened to him?? He talks baby talk to "look" cute and get acknowledged for doing things like catching a fish or something. Recently we were at a school function with all four kids. My two kids were chilling and asking how much longer etc..........the normal.

Book Suggestions

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Submitted by moz15 on Fri, 02/15/2013 - 12:13pm

I was wondering if any of you have any books you would suggest for dealing with being a stepmom or step dad.......ANYTHING?? I am currently reading stepmonsters by Wednesday Martin. I just did not know if there were any other really good ones out there that can help me adjust to this blended lifestyle.

Wife during the week.....a nobody on the weekends

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Submitted by moz15 on Wed, 02/13/2013 - 9:32am

My DH has made it very clear to me that I am basically only going to get his attention as his wife during the week because his kids need it all on the weekends. I wanted to make sure I was understanding him correctly so I asked him, "you mean, I am married to you on the week days but on the weekend i'm not??" He could not disagree with my statement.........just stated that his kids need him and that is where his attention will be and I need to learn to deal with it.

How much affection is too much affection??

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Submitted by moz15 on Mon, 02/04/2013 - 2:37pm

My husband is one of those dad's who has some guilty conscience and fills the need to spend every waking moment breathing down the necks of his kids on the weekends. Holding hands, snuggling, laying on each other, rubbing each other and the list goes on. He thinks I want him to spend less time with them and more with me. I would NEVER ask him to spend less time with his kids as I know how it is because I have two kids of my own. I just feel that every waking moment does not need to be spent physically involved with your kids. His kids WILL NOT do anything without him. I mean NOTHING!!

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