Unsupervised "supervised" visit
I am needing some imput from u ladies and gents.
Yesterday SS6s grandpa called at 7:30am ( very unusual) to ask if he could pick up SS to take him fishing, mentions to DH that he didn't want to wait until noon when bm woke up! DH said of course. Grandpa picks up all excited to go fishing. SS is SUPPOSED to be home by 6pm per court papers, well needless to say that very rarely happens, he got home at 7:30! It irritates me because this lil man needs his sleep, he is in school all day!
Well this morning I asked SS if he had fun with his papa and he said no that papa dropped him off at his mamas house! These are supposed to be supervised visits, his mother is an active drug user, had her newborn taken away in June of 2008! Her parents are forking the bill for lawyer fees, wouldn't u think that if they are doing such that they would follow the court order????
My question is since I am also paying for the court fees, should I take it upon myself to email the lawyer with my/ our concerns? (mostly mine)
any advice is greatly appreciated!
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Didn't they think that SS
Didn't they think that SS would TELL you guys where he was all day??? I would do something about it for sure. There is a reason why she is not supposed to have the kids unsupervised. What did DH say about all this??
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )
Well I just got off the
Well I just got off the phone with him and he is mad. He feels that he cant trust the ones doing the supervising, I don't at all.
He says he's gonna text BM and tell her that is contempt and he will be notifying our lawyer, I told him that I already written a letter, just haven't sent it, he told me to send it, so I did.
GOOD. At least DH sees what
GOOD. At least DH sees what is going on here... and is man enough to do something about it! That is great. I can't believe her parents would be stupid enough to do something like this. The apple doesn't fall far, huh?!?
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )
My advice would be don't
My advice would be don't allow SS to go with grandpa anymore. He can't be trusted to follow the court order and you don't have to let him take your SS.
Don't bother with the lawyer.