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'After only a few months of paying her measly CS to DH for the bag load of trouble that constitutes SS18, she is now over a month behind plus all those months are lower than they should have been. She does not add the annual increment for inflation and the age.

DH sent her an email to state that she was behind and had still not included the increment.'    

 

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Everyday a new irritant from SS

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Just want to say before i start that this is mostly a vent. I don't need any advice about it as i cant be stopped and it is just him. I am counting down the days until we get rid of him (if that ever actually happens) and I am aware that this is probably part of his AS symptoms. It still drives me mad though. Just because he is on the very light end of AS does not mean i have to ignore his weird attitudes and over the top sensory issues. I don't feel I have to play into them as i have long felt that it is just his way of getting things on his terms all the time.

Bed time - vent

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It's a warm summer evening. The neighbours are having a small get together of their family and are sat around a table chatting and drinking.

SS18 goes to bed at 10. There is no need for this but its his routine, what he wants. We are downstairs, DH watching tv and im finishing up from painting glass jars for tea lights in the garden. 

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My Plus son!

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We went to a wedding over the weeked. It was DH's Nephew. This is a four hour round trip by car for us so we stayed with his oldest Sister and her husband who are totally understanding about SS18 and his behaviours and they are very supportive. They know EVERYTHING  that he has done including stuff that I don't post here.

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Behind already

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After only a few months of paying her measly CS to DH for the bag load of trouble that constitutes SS18, she is now over a month behind plus all those months are lower than they should have been. She does not add the annual increment for inflation and the age.

Ok, the whole thing is just annoying, the amount is small and we can get by without it ofc but just making that mean bi**h pay satisfies me a little because I know she hates to have to pay. DH sent her an email to state that she was behind and had still not included the increment.

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Greedy little hobbit.

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SS18 is about 5ft 4/5". Dont know what he weighs right now though must be overweight again. DH and i had noticed that he was putting on weight especially around the belly.

We had to get some new jeans and shorts for him. Found out that he has gone up two sizes in about 3 months.

Makes me want to puke

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Apparently BM's DH has posted pics of a beautiful holiday venue in the Maldives quoting that he wants to take 'wifey' there, asking for any 'sponsors' for the trip. Bad

I assume this is meant tongue in cheek. But really the nerve. You have to be a narc to post such a thing surely? They both work full time and SD is now working too so they have three incomes in that house and are hoping that some idiots would want to sponsor this?

Not much progress made

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As you know we are on lock down (literally, locks on everything) because SS18 steals. We have, after exhausting all other ways of getting him stop this, finally gone to removing all internet access. He has to earn it back by showing that he really has changed and that he won't be helping himself anymore. Also involved in this is his bad attitude towards us and rudeness.

He thinks that after a couple of days, or a couple weeks we would give him the internet access back. But no, he cannot go 5 minutes..

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When i can get my head around it

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As you know we went to home country for my sons wedding. Some weird shit happened. 

Also o/t is a bit about my dysfunctional family. What a bunch of complete a**hats! (parents not my sons) 

When i can sort it out in my head i will blog about it. Not trying to be intentionally obscure but i want to get things out in a clear way. It wont stay up for long. 

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