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Disengaging is much harder than I thought....other's who have disengaged, please help!!

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Submitted by momof5_1969 on Sun, 08/21/2011 - 1:14am

Disengaging is much harder than I thought. I want to just let go and not care when or if SD16 and SS18 get home, etc., but it ticks me off when they miss curfew or when their dad (my DH) is so easy on them, but wasn't on his first daughter. Or for that matter, he is easier on the boys than he is on the girls! What the heck!??

I'm Starting to Disengage Finally!

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Submitted by momof5_1969 on Mon, 08/15/2011 - 1:41pm

I've posted a few times here -- I have 4 skids and one BD17. My skids are SD16, SS18, SS21 and SD22. The boys are much easier than the girls (skid-wise). The girls seem to have their BM's makeup and are behaving like her more and more each day --ie crazy. The youngest one SD16 just began acting more and more like her recently, and it makes me very sad. Up until this point, while our relationship wasn't always easy, it was manageable and we were able to have fun once in a while.

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