Fearing BM???
Wondering.....has anyone feared the BM? Like just afraid of what she was/is capable of? The BM has not made threats since I have been around but she did go to jail once for threats made to FH and things are escalating with SD13 the last 2 days to the point that it crosses my mind. I wont be able to get online today but am looking forward to reading comments when I get home.
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BM has never made threats,
BM has never made threats, but I have stories about her being psycho. We had it out a couple of months ago and I was scared that my car was going to get messed up. It sucks doesn't it?
"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus
It seriously sucks but
It seriously sucks but changes all the locks on the doors today just in case.....didnt want to even come home, bad gut feeling!! Ughhhh!!
BM has made threats against
BM has made threats against my children and myself and I did have a restraining order on her for awhile. I am still scared of what she could do.
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BM has told me a long time
BM has told me a long time ago that she's had thoughts of killing me. How nice
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Heck yeah. When I was 6mos
Heck yeah. When I was 6mos pregnant w/my son (now 3), I saw her w/binoculars acrss street from house---DH was OOT, and she knew this---she always stirs things up when he is not home---I called cops because SD just got home from school, I was leaving for an OB appt, leaving kids w/MIL who was 70+ at time and i was pretty certain she was going to try and take kid and run. Called my SIL to come to house. Needless to say, she followed me instead for a little bit, went back to house and saw cops and came up. They told her to not come on property when not swap time, and not good idea to be across street w/out informing there. Needles to say by blood pressure was off charts at OB appt, and they made me come back next day.
I have had to call cops several times to get her to leave property. She is type that could lose it at any time---biggest thing is trying to get everyone else riled up so we will hit her so she can call cops on us---we don't ever go there with her.
I have never been afraid of
I have never been afraid of her physically but I have felt very threatened by what she could and has done to my household. When someone has a child with your partner, to an extent they determine what goes on in your household. I REALLY resented this. So I guess the one good thing that's come of BM not being interested in taking care of SS is that her lack of involvement means she no longer has any input in what goes on in our home. Every now and then DH lets me know her preferences on an issue (because he still talks to her) but I am quick to remind him as far as I'm concerned if she's not a participating parent, she has no say.
"There comes a time when you have to surrender the idea of what your children could be to the reality of who they are."
Ours came to the house with
Ours came to the house with all the skids one fine day, threatened to kick my ass, and refused to leave. This is the woman who initiated the divorce NINE years ago!
Ironically, she is the school bus driver for the very route that we live on! Yikes! She made a HUGE scene on a beautiful sunny day, with all the schoolkids out playing and riding their bikes. She apparently couldn't care less...she still drives the route, even though she's been asked to switch (by her boss, who I spoke to). My son has to drive to school, since Crazy is his busdriver. Ugh. She is capable of pretty much anything.
Wow and YES!!! I feel soooo
Wow and YES!!! I feel soooo much better. Not that I'm happy it's happened to other people only that I'm glad I'm not the only one. She had made threats and as I said went to jail and the "looney bin" on 3 occasions. FH's first and only other girlfriend besides me was stalked and I do mean stalked. lots of documentation and since the proverbial shit hit the fan last night I have just had this horrible gut feeling. I asked FH to change all the locks today as SD13 stated last night that she (again) never wants to see FH "ever! You're being a dick!" SD13 again.."I'm going to court so I never have to come to your house again"...what the hell ever! He told her she wasnt welcome until she sat down with him, apologized and meant it.....this meant the SD would not have an opportunity to give FH the Xmas list she's been working so hard on!! BM got onthe phone and yelled and name called and said "you wont be seeing SD for quite some time while I take you to court to take away your parental rights" to which FH stated...hmmmmm....well then I wont have to pay CS, I could almost hear BM having a BM in her pants!! She has no other income, well legal income. Anyway she was vaguely threatening and VERY upset her "plans" for the weekend were disrupted since SD wouldnt be coming to our house for the weekend. Shit, I have expensive dogs that are just like my kids and I'm afraid for them becasue BM and SD know they were expensive AND mostly how much I love my dogs. I dunno just freaked out about the whole thing. So much for a quiet several weeks!! Funny how 2 freakin hours can overshadow several nice quiet weeks. I do not trust the crazy bitch and I wish she would just fall off the face of the earth!!!!!!!