I just wanted to share this anger & hates I am feeling. I felt like nobody will ever protect me not even my husband. I'm so freaking sick & tired dealing with my stepson that causes conflicts in our marriage for more than 3 yrs now. I have a stepson who is a teenager, 16 yrs old, full custody. He never respect me, disobey, a racist, twist & makes stories, lies, play safe & victim in front of his dad. He's even been physical, bully, told me to leave & even planned for our divorce, really? He told me he'll buy me a plane ticket to go back to my country, and he will file full custody to my own son (really?? he's not even been a brother to him, even hurt my son that cause a bruises on my son's arm)! He is just all over my nerve! And so my husband believe on his son excuses, reasoning & was so blind to see and hear the negativity that his son bringing in our marriage. My husband think it's all my fault, where the fact is he doesn't want to discipline his son, he don't give me right & authority to his son but he expect me to do favors for his son despite his bad behavior to me. So tired of threats, blames & accusations, I just wanted to give up but my husband & I have a 4 yrs old son, he was a very happy & positive kid, he don't deserve this kind of environment but I don't want him to grow up in a broken family.I thought things will get better but No, as long as my stepson living with us, nothing will change or maybe if I will allow myself to be a doormat & robot. I am dealing with a lot of things, being homesick, a new Mom, marriage, in a new environment, different culture, mixed family, being stuck in the house for more than 3 yrs since I came here in the US (not driving yet - hopefully soon I'll get my license), just a lot of adjustment! I just don't know what to do...