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Cleared of Charges!!

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So my SD's went to the counselor after My DH and myself went two days ago and of course their mother showed as well as DH. The counselor pulled my DH in to a room first and said that she knows that I was upset from the day before but after careful consideration she believes we are telling the truth.

Lets see I crashed my new SUV, forced to go to an appointment on my anniversary because it apparently we could not wait 24 hours more and then I was told that only some who was abusing children would demand to be cleared legally in writing.

So what has happened is my SD's mother has been out of work by choice, went on too many vacations, purchased high end handbags / clothing and lost her home for lack of payments (2.5 years), another boyfriend dumped her and then she came to us asking for money yet again. Upon refusal by DH to finally cut her off after 6 years of paying for her continual mistakes. SD's mother accused me of abusing the SD's in writing. So due to this the girls have not been to our home in months. Which by the way has been a God send. None of our children have been physically hurt by them in a long time.

So the counselor put all four of them into a room and starts questioning them about discipline at out home. Has anyone ever hit you or spanked you at your dad's or SM? "No but at my Mom's house it happens!" Has anyone ever hurt you or touch you inappropriately there... "No but at my Mom house".

So then their Mom starts yelling and screaming and crying. So then the counselor starts hammering their mom with questions. She finally caved she LIED!! She said did it just to hurt me. The counselor told her infront of the girls that for 6 years she has done nothing but create a hostile environment in our home so much so that now the girls are acting just a crazy as her! So the counselor is making her write an apology letter stating that she lied in the letter. Then the counselor is going to send a copy and call their pediatrician to let him know what has transpired. The best part of this is that she works for this guy now...

Ha HA Ha HA KARMA

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mom in need's picture

First she is not the birth mom.. As she tells everyone they are adopted... This is what I don't get. But she sent the threatening e-mail to my DH. Accusing me of this. So I decided to take it to our counselor that we have been seeing for over 2 years. The counselor is taking it to the MD who is her employer now and the girls pediatrician. You gotta love this.

mom in need's picture

I'm just so glad that what I call the terrorist like behavior has been squashed. Who behaves this way???