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Cleared of Charges!!

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Submitted by mom in need on Wed, 05/09/2012 - 12:44pm

So my SD's went to the counselor after My DH and myself went two days ago and of course their mother showed as well as DH. The counselor pulled my DH in to a room first and said that she knows that I was upset from the day before but after careful consideration she believes we are telling the truth.

Lets see I crashed my new SUV, forced to go to an appointment on my anniversary because it apparently we could not wait 24 hours more and then I was told that only some who was abusing children would demand to be cleared legally in writing.

I feel like counseling is a joke now..

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Submitted by mom in need on Tue, 05/08/2012 - 5:18pm

So I have been all for counseling. Now the counselor for my SD'S states that the steeling is not really steeling it just impulsiveness. I'm sorry wtf?? Really so stealing money, my purse, all yes all of my daughters jewelry, all the twenties out of a piggy bank, my nieces stuff and the list goes on.. Is impulsive not steeling... Then she suggestive that if she is caught stealing that we offer her one of that item that she stole because she has low self esteem and the SD feels like she has been wronged.

Mothers Day

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Submitted by mom in need on Sun, 05/06/2012 - 5:13pm

Is anyone cringing about mothers day with the step children? This is really going to be miserable. The SD's have been gone for 3 months and my life has been wonderful and now.... Their mother wants them to come to our home the entire weekend during mothers day. She says that this is her mother's day gift to herself.

This woman is crazy with a K!

You claim abuse then you want me to babysit you kids for the summer to save you money??

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Submitted by mom in need on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 7:54pm

Who accuses the step mom of physically abusing the husband and emotionally abusing the step children then makes a request to have the step mom babysit the stepchildren 3 days a week during the summer. WTF I am telling you my DH ex is crazy. One week I am "abusive" & the children can't come the next she is back with her BF and needs cheap child care to save HER $$. What a joke... Why would I ever do this crazy woman any favors after all the nasty, hostel and verbally abusive e-mails and verbal attacks.

Has any one had to deal with this type of crazy?

Stressed about mid week dinners.

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Submitted by mom in need on Wed, 05/02/2012 - 7:04pm

So my daughter comes home from dinner with her birth father and my son says while they were eating dinner that she told my ex and his woman that I am mean and she would rather spend time with them. So I ask her if this is true and she tells me that feels like if she doesn't say bad things like that they won't like her or will punish her because she loves me. So I explained that it is ok to love both sides of the family and everyone is important.

Why cant people learn.

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Submitted by mom in need on Sun, 04/29/2012 - 5:10pm

So again to catch up. My step daughters 10yo accused me of abuse to their mom. They said that I am beating up their father and emotional abusing them. So their mom states. But lets not forget that she is again not working, lost her boyfriend and is now living in what looks like low income housing after she lost her home due to lack of payment. Not that this woman did not have any money she just spent it on expensive purses, shopping and eating out.