so i recently had a conversation with my ex, not really sure what to think here. he is consist in being a loser tells me he has no job cuse " its sooo hard to get one" and other random bullshit. the whole point of him calling me was to ask me to drop the child custody proceedings, because i got a letter with the date and time for court and he didn't get one. this goes back to the whole address issue. he does not give me his current address, so i filed everything in his fathers address, the clerk said it was fine to do that. so now hes mad because he didn't get his letter yet and clearly stated "if i dont get a letter I'm not going to court, and no one can do anything because i didn't know" (see where his idiocy is frustrating)so i told him that it would be much easier for me if he did that because i then would get full custody very easily, so then he states that he will refuse to sign anything, so i very patiently told him (still trying to figure out why) that he has to go to court if he doesn't he gets a nice little stay in jail,that he doesn't have to sign anything because its a judge thats going to make the decision's so he needn't worry about that. so then he gets frustrated and is like "i have no way to contact them" so i told him that i would send him an e-mail with the court date and time along with the case number so he can call the court and ask for the info. then he says "where am i supposed to call from" i responded " a telephone". then he made the grand ol claim that the only reason that I'm doing this is to screw him over and that i need to stop living in the past and move on. ummmmm wtf????? this comment really pissed me off, it looks like this little sh*t is thinking that I'm not over him and am trying to harm him through G. so i responded that if i wanted to screw him over i would of done it a loooonnngggg time ago by not letting him have any kind of contact with his daughter, him or his family for that matter, that he wouldn't have even know what she looked like because he wouldn't know anything about her. then he just responds "well are you done now". i mean really i have tried my hardest to work with this complete idiot and its seems that its all one sided. now i find out,(because it just so happens that even though i live thousands of miles away I just cant get far away enough from the people I don't want to know about) that he has a job under the table, he has money of course doing odd things here or there. but of course he does not send a dime. Thats it I'm done, next time we speak it will be in court and hopefully i wont have to say anything.