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How much do you live your lives around skids?

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Submitted by mndblwn on Mon, 02/27/2012 - 11:30am

I'm the type of woman that wants to live my own life with my husband and soon to be child. I want to include my stepson honestly as much as we can but his bio mom makes it hard with the visitation schedule.

When planning a family vacation do you live around the CO or just plan when the time is right and if skid can go then skid can go but if not oh well?
Does DH switch visitation time in order for skid to play sports with his friends or just have the skid miss out becaus bio mom doesn't want to drive up and stay?

TMI

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Submitted by mndblwn on Thu, 02/23/2012 - 7:10pm

We still don't understand why BM feels the need to tell us details of her life. The newest news is that she has a major kidney infection. Hello Woman why do you want to parade that you are a dirty skank? She wants DH to help her pick up skid and drive halfway to her because of her pain. Not our problem. You can't make it you give up the time.

Sports Dilema

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Submitted by mndblwn on Sun, 02/19/2012 - 5:01pm

Ss7 would like to play tee ball this spring. He goes with his bm 3 weekends a month from Thursday to Sunday. Bm told ss that he could play. She then emailed DH to ask what the situation was and if he was doing the transporting. Bm lives 3.5 hours away. DH told her that we would sign ss up for tee ball but it had to be ok with her to leave him here or bring him back for games on the weekends because it wasn't fair for ss or the team to miss out while he goes with her.

how long is enough?

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Submitted by mndblwn on Tue, 02/14/2012 - 12:48pm

How long do you disengage yourself from anything to do with skids to see if your DH or DW will change things?

My skid is a shit. He is 7 yrs old. He has such an attitute since he now sees his BM a lot more and whines every time he talks to DH. He is disrespectful when talking to DH. I'm highly frustrated because I don't agree with any of that and our house should be way different than his BM's house. In my eyes the house and family doesn't revolve around the skid. It should work for each person involved.

torn family

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Submitted by mndblwn on Sun, 02/12/2012 - 7:31pm

My ss and dh are meant to be left alone like they were before I came in the picture. Ss whines and only speaks to dh in a low voice when I'm around. Dh let's him take over. I'm truly over it. Ss and dh are to blame. Dh let's ss play him so much it makes me sick.

I'm pregnant with my first. That's my number one. Ss and his mother and dh can have each other in my eyes. Ss and bm play this game. I just feel it. Ss is a monster each time he is home with us and he can't wait until he goes with bm for toys, mcdonalds and just pure being spoiled.

court order violation

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Submitted by mndblwn on Thu, 01/26/2012 - 9:19am

is it worth taking the other parent to court over a violation of the court order? for example CO states both parents shall carry medical insurance on child and BM chooses not to even after carrying it for about a month?

let's cry over treats

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Submitted by mndblwn on Tue, 01/24/2012 - 3:41pm

BM was completed pissed about us not taking her treats to school. ss was very please with saving his treats and taking them in for valentine's day. BM has called the teacher crying and has set up a conference with the teacher and principal.

Our stand is that it's not fair for one child to have two birthday parties at school or take treats twice two weeks about for his birthday. that is teaching morals and right from wrong.

marriage on the rocks

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Submitted by mndblwn on Sun, 01/22/2012 - 7:58pm

My ss is the reason to blame. I don't like being around him and I don't like when he is home with us. He is 7 yrs old and very smart playing the game between parents. One example is that bm complained that we threw shoes away and she wants things back. I know ss only told her that dh threw them away instead of saying the backs were ruined.

Bm and ss never bring jeans back to our house after her weekend. He always comes home in pajamas. Well ss will go to school in pajamas when he runs out of jeans during the week. They don't even back them in his school bag to bring home.

cops seriously called

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Submitted by mndblwn on Fri, 01/20/2012 - 6:34pm

So when we wouldn't let BM talk to her son after her court appointed time monday she actually called the cops and complained about us. Luckily the CO can be pulled up by the cops and they didn't do anything to us. They knew we were not violating the CO by any means.

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