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Submitted by mmm1 on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:18pm

After a subpeona we recieved my schildrens therapy notes today.
It is sad to read they are reporting things that are very negative about me.
And none of it really is true. I feel really bad that they seem to feel this way.
But then I realized that they dont. Thier bm is feeding them full of bad information.
Some of the notes say things that there is no way a 10sd at the time could have came up with on her own.
Why can the therapist see that there must be something else going on?
And how can anyone in thier right mind think if the kids say they are soo scared to come here because I am soo mean to them. Then why would they continue to encourage them to visit.
I know the SM is always the bad person. It is soo hard. There are lies and more lies and the therapist is only talking to the SF that should not be even talking to the therapist. The SF should not have access if I as the SM cant have access to the kids. The therapist even notes that the kids father is their SF not thier BioF.
UGh!
It just seems to get soo bad.
And if I am soo confused by it all I can only imagine how confused the kids are.

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Submitted by mmm1 on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:22pm

Then the kids are at school from 715 am to get the free breakfast til 430 in the afternoon so they can do the after school program and take the late bus to a house that they used to live in. Then thier mom meets them there and takes them to thier new house and then they get home about 515pm. The only reason they do that schedule is so thier BM can go to school. Thier SF works swings so he cant pick them up. They are in elementary school. I feel bad for them.
The family is not finacially strugglin as they sued us for wrongful death with my ss8 died in a farming accident in 2009. We settled out of court and she was granted some money. They bought a new house and bought all new furniture, new flat screens to put on the kids bedroom walls, and kids all got Ipod touches. Then she is acting like she needs the money to stay in school so they can stay rich. It is soo sad. SD11 is failing in school but her BM has 4.0 in college. SD11 says she has to do homework herself and help her bm do hers. UGH!
When are the kids going to come first.
Sorry had to vent I am upset tonight.

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Submitted by VioletsareBlue on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:41pm

I can only imagine what SD6 may say about me in therapy. I know she is fed awful things by her BM and I can only hope the therapist can see through the BS. They supposed to be able to, right?
I'm so sorry to hear about your SS8.

What does your DH say about it? How can you make sure you get access and stop SF from getting access?
SD6s idiot therapist called BM to tell her that we had a lawyer and were asking for the records. I felt that it was a complete invasion of our privacy, we didn't give her permission to do it.
I completely understand how much it hurts, I don't know what else to say except that I understand.

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Submitted by mmm1 on Thu, 02/10/2011 - 12:23pm

Yes. He was on a hay trailor and fell off and was ran over. It has been soo hard. It was on my parents farm. No neglegence was found. However BM keeps running us through the ringer on it. She was nice when it first happened because we paid for the entire funeral burrial etc. But now its over she has been horrible.
The poor kids are trapped in the middle it has been soo hard.