I KNOW ss has issues. I realize he was bounced around from bf to bf and school to school with bm. But he has been here for almost 2 years in a stable, normal environment and it is about gd time that he starts to DO something. I do love the kid, and feel bad for him, but the flip side of that is he is the laziest most gluttonous person (adult ofr child) that I have ever come across in my life and I am not going to put up with it any longer.

We will start with the food issues. In 1 1/2 days he drank a whole gallon of milk, used the entire 16 oz container of Hershey's syrup that I HID because it was for my 5 year old as treat, ate an entire pound of turkey and half a loaf of bread. Half a jar of peanut butter that he left open in his room as he was eating it with a spoon, etc. The list goes on. Don't complain about your weight when you are eating everything in your path. He then bitched about how much he hates gym because they *gasp* made him run laps. Maybe if you actually moved on occasion it wouldn't be so trying.

Today I go to clean the living room. I vacuum under the couch cushions, which apparently he has never seen in his life. Otherwise he would not be stuffing wrappers and used napkins between the cushions because he is too f*ing lazy to walk the 5 feet to a garbage can.

Next up, I take a peak in his room. He was told it must be cleaned. Righ in the middle of his bed is a ROTTING banana peel. Mind you he slept in the bed, so he obviously was lying on it. I tell him to get off his butt and go clean his room. Mention said banana peel and get "It's only been there since yesterday". Really? You think it matters how long the rotting food has been there? You don't think it should be thrown out immediately??? This is asside from all the garbage I can see under his bed. ALso, he has cleaned up his clothes by throwing them all in the hamper. 3/4 of them still folded form the last time they were washed.

So here we are. He will come from school and actually clean the pig sty he calls a room. In addition, today he will learn how to do his own laundry because I'm not doing it anymore. My 5 year old knows how to clean and fold laundry. I am sick and tired of living with the equivalent of a sloth. He will be doing work around the house and he will be doing school work every night from now on. I'm so tired of of looking at him lounging around while dh and I do everything. ANd thankfully, so is dh.