Hi everyone! Most of you may not know or remember me - I'm Milomom and I used to be an active member here a few years ago. I think I first found StepTalk back in 2010 or so.

For those of you that may remember me....hello again!!!

For those of you that have joined StepTalk AFTER I stepped away for a little while....it's nice to meet you!!

I've been busy reading everyone's posts and catching up with everyone's lives ("old timers"), as well as learning about others' lives ("newbies") - WELCOME!!!

I hope to be able to contribute regularly to StepTalk again - and to give advice and support as needed.

For those of you that don't know me - I believe all of my old blogs are still up and available to access. To summarize:

I have been with my DH for over 10 years now, married for just under 2 years. DH has 2 biokids from his previous marriage: SDstb20 & SS16.5. He also adopted his exW's son from a previous OOWL relationship, SS30, when he married her back in 1993 or so. DH & I have a new biodaughter together, DD2.

My usual vents are about the ex-wife/BM, who I've lovingly nicknamed "Craterface BM". We live in the BM-loving state of New York...so I really don't have to say anymore. Craterface BM is a huge leech, major narcissist and has PAS'd all of my skids for over 10 years now. Despite the fact that we have ALWAYS shared true 50/50 legal & physical custody of skids with Craterface for the entire 10 years, DH still has to pay massive CS to her (as New York REWARDS those BM's who simply refuse to work or purposefully underemploy themselves).