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BM was caught in a lie and SHE threatens a restraining order.
DH picked up ss on Friday at normal time, thinking ss14 was missing BB practice because BM failed to communicate. DH wanted to talk to ss about his decision, because BM said she would have to tell ss why was missing is because of DH (Classic PASing). I guess SS14 was confused and told DH that Friday's practices are early morning ones. Ss14 also told DH that there is a game on MOnday night, but he can't play. He told DH that there had been two weeks of practice, a mixture of after school and early morning.
Update on fight with DH over basketball practice.
So DH texted BM this morning at 8am to inform her that she can meet him at the drop off point on Saturday at 10 am or they will meet Friday at normal time and ss would have to miss Basketball.
Crickets
Sent the same text again at noon
Crickets
At 6pm, DH texted her again, this time telling her that she had until 8pm to respond.
Crickets
8pm comes and goes - nothing. So he sent her another text saying that they will just meet Friday at normal time. Crickets.
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Fight with DH over my ss14
DH and I got into an argument tonight. We only ever argue over ss14 and BM. BM decides to let ss14 join basketball and informs DH that there is practice Friday's after school. DH texts me and asks if it's okay that he goes and gets ss14 on Saturday instead (it's a 4 hour round trip).
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Haven't posted in awhile.
Last time I posted DH lost his job. Since then he found a new job that pays much more and better benefits. It's with a company he's always want to work for, I can tell he is less stress. He went from managing people to managing a process: less whiney ppl to deal with.
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Spam bloggers now?
So I see a lot of threads being posted at night, trying to get me to buy some Nike shoes or whatever. I always just scroll past them. But now I have noticed that they are posting in our blogs. Check out the OT-Work blog, some defense attorney posted the same thing twice. This spam person is from Germany and activated 4 hours ago. Can we please put a stop to this? I don't want to have to shuffle through comments to see what is an advertising and who is a SM. I'll deactivate my account and leave if this is the case.
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Life just slapped me in the face
Won't post, see below for the Debbie downer story of my life.
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I deleted my blog
I deleted my last blog. I was asking a question about why I wasn't able to post to a fellow step talkers blog. Unfortunately my blog was hijacked, I see that to often here and it makes me upset. I do not want my screen name to be apart of the previous drama that happened here. Like most SMs, I come here for my sanity and enjoy reading other peoples situations, I do not want to be blocked from this site.
Thank you,
Midwest Stepmom
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Your stories have made me appreciate my situation.
I've been here for awhile and I've noticed I am a minority here. I have read so many blogs about SM feeling like the kids are ruling the house hold and there DHs are not willing to step in and help. Sometimes I want to face palm and other times I want to scream at my phone.
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Bm has to lie about everything
Last weekend Bm showed up to the drop off point and texted dh if he was running late. Dh said no, your a week early and he sent her the email exchange between them agreeing on the summer dates. The drop off location is a 3 hour drive one way for both Bm and dh. Bm tried to laugh off the situation and told dh that it was okay since they planned to spend the weekend in that town. No idea why she would spend the weekend there, dh has no ties there and there no attractions there.
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Mad at dh and resent the skid.
So dh has been working late this past few weeks. All the cooking and evening routines with BS1 have fallen on me for the most part. My dh is tired and will fall asleep in the movie room, so we haven't been spending much time together. It's getting to the point were I'm lonely and annoyed. We havent had much time together since bs1 has been born.
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