In my last blog I mentioned that a review had happened and my DH was ordered to pay for one year a heavy increase in top of the normal increase. This was due to a 401k loan dispersement that we took out for a down payment on our house. DH had changed jobs and he either had to pay the loan back or be taxed on it as income.

Court just got over with and the judge found in favor of my DH. He was able to prove he did not start continuing to his 401k until after starting to pay CS and that Ss had already benefited from that calculated income. Therefore it would be double dipping.

I just need to get this out there. I have been crying for the last few days and I need to write everything down to process this. If you want to hate on me, that's okay cause I feel pretty low about it myself.

So this weekend we went shopping for ss13-will be 14 in a week birthday gift. We decided to convert his room into more of a teenager room and replace the "boy" stuff in it. We bought new bedding, curtains, wall art, a new flat screen TV and a blu ray player.

While making his bed I lifted up the mattress and found a candy bar wrapper under the bed and found open candy sitting out on his night stand. This past weekend he was forced to clean his entire room from top to bottom and reorganize everything as a punishment for hiding a box of wrappers in his Lego box.

Per court order DH was suppose to get ss14 this past weekend as normal visitation (EOW rotation), plus receive next weekend for MLK weekend (outlines this holiday in the CO). Well BM decided that's not how she wanted to interpret the CO this year - it's been in place 8 years. She has decided MLK weekend will start the rotation.