My first blog.. please bear with me becasue this is long.

My dh was married twice before me. BM1 divorced him when he was over seas and got custody. She was cheating on him and wanted to marry someone else. She remarried and moved a couple hours drive away (in good weather).

Becasue DH was out of country, BM1 was able to do a good job of poisoning SS30 against him. By the time DH was back stateside, his son hardly wanted anything to do with him. DH's visitation weekends were rough becasue SS hated coming and would spend the whole time being angry and difficult. No matter what DH planned..stuff SS liked.. SS was always saying he didn't want to do this and that, hated what DH made/bought for food, hated DH's house, wanted to Go Home...

Meantime, DH married BM2. SS was so mad at DH he wouldn't come for visitation for weeks. When BM2 got pregnant, BM1 had LOTS of fights with SS to get him to come so he would only come every couple of months.

BM1 got divorced again and ended up moving to another state and SS who was 17 went with her. DH decided to not fight for visitation because SS was almost 18.

BM2 just LEFT. DH picked up their boy from daycare, got home and she was gone. THere was a note saying she decide she wasn't cut out to be a mom wanted to party and have fun and he could keep the kid. DH has full custody of SS15 since he was 4. BM2 hardly ever calls, never gets him, never sends card or gift. SHe's too busy being a party girl.

DH always tried to keep contact with SS30. For whatever reason SS30 blamed DH for BM2 desserting her son (in fact they are facebook friends!!). BM1 died from cancer 5 years ago. SS blamed DH saying if he would have been there for BM1 and been a good husband she would have stayed and not gotten sick. (What crazy stupid crap!!!!!!!)

SS30 is facebook frinds with SS15 but don't ever "talk". SS15 is too busy doing outdoor stuff and not on the computer much. In fact he hasn't been ON facebook since January. DH doesn't have facebook account. THe only times SS30 contact DH is to text him or leave ugly voice messages saying how much he hates DH. DH won't block him becasue, well, he's his son. He has tried to call back but SS30 won't take his calls.

I met DH 9 years ago when SS was 6, we got married in 2010. I do have a facebook account. A while back SS30 sends me a friend request. Now I don't know him from Adam so I just deleted it. NExt thing I know I get a message from him saying "Your DH's wife right????????" I blocked him. A few months ago I got another friend request. SS30 made anothr account. I blocked him. This morning I look and I have ANOTHER friend request from SS and ANOTHER message. A little while ago I had a strange number on my cell phone so I didn't answer. Damn if its not SS30!!!!! The only was he could have got my number is if BM2 gave it to him. SS15 wouldn't give it to him and DH didn't.

I'm so MAD. I blocked him number on my phone. Facebook? The only thing I can think of is to CLOSE my facebook account tht I've had for EIGHT years. Augh. WHy can't this little jerk leave me alone??