Ok so I am new at this. I have been a sp for going on 7yrs now. I don't have any bio kids of my own as of yet but my hubby has 3. (19, 17, & 13). Their mom has been nothing but backstabbing and hurtful to the fullest extent. I can only speak for myself. I have no idea what is privately said between anyone else. I used to love his kids until all kinds of drama has surfaced up. Now I will admitt that there is wrong doing on all sides. Words have been said and tempers flared. But here is the thing. I am done with his kids but love him to death. I could care less if they ever come around again. Am I totally wrong for feeling this way? I saw a post on here about someone saying...."His kids made me that way" is exactly how I feel right now. If they are mad at their bm they are here talking trash to their bd and vice versa if they are mad at their bd they are talking trash about it to their bm. And all the bs'ing that goes along with it. How do I live with, "I love you but, can't stand anything and everything about your kids." I'm going freaking nuts with all the drama....help!