Ok so I am new at this. I have been a sp for going on 7yrs now. I don't have any bio kids of my own as of yet but my hubby has 3. (19, 17, & 13). Their mom has been nothing but backstabbing and hurtful to the fullest extent. I can only speak for myself. I have no idea what is privately said between anyone else. I used to love his kids until all kinds of drama has surfaced up. Now I will admitt that there is wrong doing on all sides. Words have been said and tempers flared. But here is the thing. I am done with his kids but love him to death.