So I go to the gynocologist today (yes, this is important). As I'm checking in, I am asked to verify my secondary address and phone number. I don't have a secondary address and phone number, so you can imagine my shock when the secondary information listed belonged to DH's ex wife, or as i call her BM from HELL!!!!!!!!!! We can't PROVE it, but this is what we think happened. Before her and SD figured out a way to ruin our lives, she was over at our house one day saw a doctor bill, picked it up, and took it home with her, then proceeded to call that doctor and give them all my information and try to have my medical stuff mailed to her. The reason the KIND of doctor it was is important is because neither of my skids have ever been seen at that doctor so she had absolutely NO BUSINESS trying to get any information mailed to her! Can't think of a better place to find out your identity has been hacked, gotta love getting stew while your feet are in stirrups! I am not only mad, i feel violated. After all this woman has done, we find out that she's been doing this as well!!!!!!!!!!!! UGH!!!! So, we got copies of our credit reports and i called all my doctor's to verify that they didn't have secondary addresses listed for me and we are trying to get a copy of the previous addresses (the secretary took it off and when she did it deleted all previous history and we hadn't yet printed out), so that hopefully i can press charges on this woman. But again, we lack "proof", and as shown by our previous involvement with the courts, they don't rely very heavily on common sense! Granted, we can't "prove" any of this, but who else would add that woman's address to my medical information besides her? The question is why would she do something like this? Stupid, stupid, stupid woman