In my last blog I spoke of how my boyfriends kids had torn us apart, they came out of nowhere, just a recap, i moved out for the 3rd time in January of 2014, SD informed me that he took full custody of his adopted 15yr old daughter who is a manipulator, the 23yr old son ask if he could come too and my boyfriend said yes without speaking to me about it.
Well, I went back on Tuesday of last week because my boyfriend of 2 1/2yrs informed me that he took his 15yr old daughter back to her mother and that the 23yr old son was leaving as well. The weekend was a bust, from the time i got there I felt that I wasn't supposed to be there.
I felt so disconnected in every way. Normally I would cook and do laundry and really enjoy every moment with him but I could tell things were different, the bed we slept in slept horribly I offered to buy an new one and he said no, that it was fine, even thought he had a crook in his neck and so did I. There was no food in the house just junk food. On Friday he told me that he was going out of town to exchange his work vehicle but it was in the parking lot and he drove his personal vehicle. so I'm back at work now in another state and I haven't seen him since Friday. He asks me to leave the key to his apartment in a second vehicle that his son drove. On Friday morning we talked and he said he wanted to go on vacation and I said where are we going and he said do you really want to know, he said he needed to get away from me and his daughter, mind you when I saw him on Tuesday I hadn't seen him in 3 weeks, I said "how did I get in that equation and he said that he sent his kids back because of me, he knew that I wasn't coming back as long as the 15yr old was there. I've taken myself out of the equation concerning his kids because they have never been involved in our 2-1/2 yr relationship and they mean us no good.
My boyfriend said to me "you want me to make a decision and not waiver and I said of course, you keep changing your mind" Last week he said he would fix all of this and that we would be together and now he saying that he's not sure if he made the right decision, He said that he needs his daughter not to call him for two weeks, well if you ask me I think he should just not pick up for two week.
To be honest I'm so done with all of the drama I can't see straight, I haven't said anything to him but I'm done, I just can't keep hanging on to nothing anymore. Thank you to all that have replied with positive comments,I needed them. Good Luck to all of you.