SS10 is attached to my DH's ass
My SS10 is literally attached to my husband. And he for the most part isn't bothered by the fact that his son just stands behind him. It annoys the hell out of me ESP when DH tries to talk to me and then all of the sudden SS10 has 10 million things to say! Or that DH will want to discuss something that I feel is NONE of skids business. SS13 is not like and never really has been. He is even annoyed with SS10! Literally Monday couldn't have come fast enough for them to go home. SS10 stood behind DH while he did dishes the other night just standing there. He constantly just wonders around our house and has to be told to do something. He has his OWN room and then our basement is a play space for both skids. Yet he feels the need to park himself in my living room and will literally sit there with no TV on, just sit there. Its creepy and I've said stuff to my DH many times over the years. I've heard it all that he needs attention, that he is lacking something. We have all sat down with him (DH & Me as well as his BM and SF) to ask him what he needs, what makes him comfortable, etc. Not to mention when he is around he doesn't listen at all, not to DH or me. And that irks me so much. My DS will start to act out or like him which is the WORST to me!!! And he will get my DS all worked up and acting out!! I just needed to vent...I cant wait till these kids don't want to come here anymore!!!
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OMG this sounds my SD13 who
OMG this sounds my SD13 who just decided she wanted to be a boy at the start of the school year!
She sits in the dark in the living rom on her iPod Touch, so absorbed that she doesn't turn a single light on, creeps me out when I get home from work. Now I tell her to go find something to do. Then she'll sit at the table with DH and I when we're discussing things. One time not too long ago I told her to beat it for the first time in front of DH.
We have SD13 and SD19 FT now. Ugh.
~Moon
Its SO beyond annoying! He
Its SO beyond annoying! He will sit while we try and talk and sometimes DH will tell him to go and other times he lets him sit and listen, like NO its none of his F'in business!!!! I will flat out stop talking bc I do not discuss even the weather in front of them.
Oh with company its 10x
Oh with company its 10x worse!! And even though we are not saying anything that if repeated would not be okay, its the point that any of my business is none of theirs or their mom's business. They will try to be in adult convos and again DH will sometimes not say anything at all. I've confronted him about this before bc I don't think its right!
Maybe you should have him
Maybe you should have him start doing chores when he's standing idle by Dh. Give him something to do! My parents used to do this when we'd say we were bored or trying to hang on them.