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Submitted by mapap on Fri, 11/03/2023 - 11:05am

Hi everyone. I need someone to knock some sense into me. I had been seeing the same man again who has left his wife. He told me he had a better handle on things with the kids. He was staying at his moms and then I like a moron allowed him to move in. It's not been a month and now he is claiming he should go back because of the kids and "give them the life they deserve". Whatever the hell that means. He didn't end up going back home last time, he went to his moms. I believe that is what he plans on doing again because he still doesn't know what he wants.

Working through anger and other emotions

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Submitted by mapap on Wed, 11/16/2022 - 6:50pm

Hi everyone, I have recently left my anxiety filled, toxic environment with 3 skids and a BF. I am happier than I have been in a long time. However I'm still very angry at how I was treated by this very spoiled, entitled, and very toxic kids. I am wondering how some of you dealt with the anger afterwards? Especially if you and your SO has somewhat of a decent relationship prior to the kids moving in or coming into the picture more regularly. I understand that this is completely my SO's fault for not setting boundaries, having rules and consequences. But I am very very angry.