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I stretched on my sinus problems to get out of going to SS9 football game

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Submitted by Manda on Sun, 09/13/2009 - 2:49am

I do have allergies and they've been flairing up but I told FH that I was feel horrible today and couldn't make it to SS9's football game. I am truly having issues with allergies and barely can't see because my eyes are so watery however if I really wanted to go to the game I could've gone. I hate going to that crap because BM is always there and her piece of s-it husband is an assistant coach and if I can help it I will find a way not to be around them. I am actually hoping and wishing that SS's team loses all their games so we don't have to deal with going downstate...because I KNOW I'll have to be there. I just HATE and I mean HATE bm sooo much that I can't be around her...it even comes down to my health! Being around her gives me so much anxiety that sometimes I think I'm going to have a heart attack!

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Submitted by NotMadeOfMoney on Sun, 09/13/2009 - 11:09am

I too can't stand to go to SD8's school functions and performances b/c BM and BM's mother are there as well. I'm always trying to figure out ways to get out of going! I love my BF's mom and I always ask if she's going too. If she is, then I'll go b/c I'll be fortunate enough to have a buffer. She HATES BM so I'm lucky in that aspect. If I end up going with just my BF, I try to get us away from BM and her family and go sit somewhere else. As soon as the function is over, BF walks up to SD, says words of praise and congratulations and tells her we're leaving. She just shrugs her shoulders, quickly hugs her dad and runs off with her friends. Then we make a b-line for the door and we're outta there!

Halloween is coming up and I'm dreading that as well. SD still dresses up and is taken around the neighborhood for trick-or-treating. BM makes a big deal about this so she throws a Halloween party in SD's honor afterwards. She has to have mommy AND daddy there b/c that's how it was when she was little. Gag!! Last year was the first Halloween she knew me and I got out of going over to BM's house. My BF understood why I didn't want to go and he told SD that I had a doctor's appointment that day and couldn't come. I just don't want to be around them together and feel like a 5th wheel and don't belong. I hate feeling that way so I'd rather avoid situations like that. Sorry, this is just me. I had a picture in my head with them two holding their daughter's hands and with me walking six feet behind them like the family dog while we take her trick-or-treating. Hell no!

I totally understand where you're coming from. Smile
~Lizzy (NotMadeOfMoney)
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