Just checked DH cell because it was ringing and he's asleep--it's our work # too, so it could be a business call. Well it was a telemarketer, but there are 4 new texts from Sybil. It won't show "new message" anymore so he will know I read them but that's ok.

"I love you I'm sorry I want you back" is the gist of all four. "I love you baby good morning you need to buy me a decent phone" Now I KNOW DH despises her, but it still pisses me off to see this on his phone. She still thinks he will take her back! I've heard him for the past year tell her in no uncertain terms there's not a snowballs chance in hell he would take her back. Whether or not we were together, that ship has sailed!! She just won't accept it. So help me I think one text means she started her cycle "and u thought I was too old"

Oh, make that 5 texts now- "are you there or did you fall back asleep" I'm not an idiot. The man is snoring 15 ft away from me and has been in my sight/hearing since the first text she sent. No way she's been talking to him this morning. Just the simple fact that they were new messages shows that. Also he's completely incoherent for at least an hour after he wakes up, til he's had coffee. She's obviously forgotten that in the past near 3 years lol!! I assume that msg is to make me think he was talking to her behind my back. So stupid. Have I mentioned that it's DH, not me, that started calling her Sybil? After the split personality/bipolar whatever in the movies. REAL sign of affection there! (note the heavy sarcasm lol)

I'm sorely tempted to just delete them. In fact, I think I will. Less drama all around. Done. Hmm that was easy lol! Now he will never mention them to her and she will be more pissed and accuse him of lying about getting them, which he won't be lying because HE never got the messages! He will just chalk it up to further psychoses on her part. Love it!! And he would never even think I'd do that so it's not like I'll get blamed. }:) Boy, I'm glad I didn't follow my first instinct and text her back!! Hahahahaha!!

It's our date night, so why should either of us have to put up with her garbage? I just saved DH some unnecessary stress .

On a brighter note, he talked to her last night and DIDN'T put the kids on the phone :). SS10 wanted to go downstairs to tell him something, I told him not to that dad was on the phone and needed left alone. I knew if Sybil heard him talk would demand to speak to both of them. Told DH later what I'd done and he said good job. SS didn't like being told not to go down though. ("downstairs" is the garage/mancave/work area where DH smokes, works on our business, and talks to Sybil so the kids can't hear. If I'm in our room, I can hear HIM near perfectly from directly overhead. ) SS always runs down even when told not to, I had to tell him 4 times NO don't go down there!!! He was mad but tough. I'd rather have him mad than Sybil filling SD5s head with crap any more than she already does.

SD5 has been really pissy the past couple days. Called me "Fat Butt" yesterday. Said well you are! When I told her that's not nice, and not allowed. "well you are and so is daddy, besides I call mommy that too". Too bad. If Sybil puts up with it that's HER problem, but I'm not having a smart mouth 5 yr old around. That'll just lead to a smartmouthed 8, 10, 12, teenaged girl. (I know-I was one )NOT HAPPENING. She sat in time out and pouted. DH wanted to know why pouting so I told him. (he jokingly called me fat once. Once. I put a stop to it right then. Sure not taking it as an insult from a kid, if I won't let him teasingly call me that.)