This chapter is appropriately titled, "Embrace Your Identity Crisis" There is so much in this chapter that I can identify with. This chapter starts off with talking about the transition from being single to wam-o! instant family! As much as I was ridiculed by my ex and the bio-mom for this being *exactly* what I wanted, and it so wasn't. What girl does?! Yes, I wanted a family, and I still do, but I want a family of my own, not someone elses with all the problems that it brings.