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Submitted by LRP75 on Sat, 07/07/2012 - 8:33pm

i deleted the original post. it was probably an "over share"...

i'm just having a really bad few weeks...

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Submitted by LRP75 on Sat, 07/07/2012 - 9:02pm

I agree. I love this site for that reason.

I think I considered it to be an "over share," because it's admitting "out loud" that this marriage isn't working...

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Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Sat, 07/07/2012 - 8:54pm

Well I totally get the feeling of DH "checking out" when the skids around. My skids are the center of the universe when the come over. Nothing else seems to exist when they are around, it's like life stops.

I think you should be proud of yourself for handling the car issue. And if your Dad asked why DH wasn't taking care of it, I would throw his ass under the bus and tell the truth.

I would definitely stop doing the things he "can't handle" and when he asks what's happening, I would say "Gee, I thought the rules changed on who was doing what around here since I had to take care of the car"

There's many ways to skin a cat Wink

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Submitted by LRP75 on Sat, 07/07/2012 - 9:00pm

You got it girl. I deleted it because I feel like such a whiney b*tch lately.

He "checks out" when his kids are around, and then "checks in" the moment he takes them home. It's hurtful and it just went way too far this last visit. He's been trying to "check back in" since he took SS back on Tuesday, but I can't let him back in.

I really just feel very, very lonely.

I hate this. I hate it a lot.

Once again I look back and I see how I forced something to happen, only too late to realize that it wasn't something God wanted for me to begin with. I should have known.

I really think I'm just meant to be alone. Trying to be in relationship with other people, trying to trust them and rely on them, is just too painful...