starting to hate my husband & his kids from hell
I been married almost four years. My husband has three kids. Two are his step kids that his loser shit bitch of a mother abandoned with him. He went away for two years, and his dad took care of his kids. So when he came back we got together and now have two kids and one on the way. He had a older daughter (11) almost 12,. His bio daughter (10) she's sweet as pie., a shit kid son (8).. His son had mental problems from the mom doing drugs while pregnant. so does the older daughter. Only one normal is his bio daughter.. His son is so mean to my sweet little 2 year old boy. That his dad ended up taking custody of him. We have custody of the two girls in MY two bedroom home. The older girl steals, lies, and wants all the attention of get dad to the point where his bio kids (including my two kids with him) are left out.. Ugh in a prefect world there bitch mom would take get kids back or find out who the real dads are and levee us with only his daughter and my kids so we could have our happy life. He feels bad that he took on her kids. the boy was born while she cheated on him. I'm not kidding his two step kids are weird.. I going out the son was hurting, slapping and torturing my son. The older girl is so jealous of my kids and his bio kid from his ex. I hate him for making having here, and ruining moments with our kids. I just want to pack up with my kids and leave him.
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So, I am thinking that you
:O So, I am thinking that you are so angry that you might just need to do this before you end up in her shoes as the ex hating him and inflicting even more on your children. Believe me I hear you and I know how angry this situation makes a person and I am in the very same boat where I feel it would be so much easier to leave the situation.If it is anything like my case, the child(ren) in these cases are so mean that it is impossible to deal with and you feel like you are exposing your children to it which in my mind constitutes as forcing my children to make sacrifices that they really are not old enough to even do! In any case, ask yourself - what is in the best interest of the children that you are required to protect? Don't consider anyone else - not even yourself because we all know good moms have to sometimes put their own feelings aside in order to properly manage/raise and protect a child.
I hope it helps and I am def here.
Kim
Does she know her dad is not
Does she know her dad is not her real dad? Even if she does not, I would say she has anger issues over her mother abandoning her. At 12, she needs counseling. Sadly, some of the best counselors can not make a difference. I wish you the best.
Gah! you have 5 kids (2 of
Gah! you have 5 kids (2 of which are not even your DH's) and one on the way and you live in a 2 bedroom house? AND you lost custody of your 2 year old son because of a kid that is not your DH's?
I'm sure you know this, but damn! this is all kinds of fucked up. Was anything legal ever done as far as custody of the 2 kids that were abandoned or are they just "living" with your DH? Has anyone bothered to address these so called "mental issues" that these 2 kids have?
Thanks for the comments
Thanks for the comments ladies.. We've addressed and sent his step son to counseling and made him live with my husbands dad. I've contacted the boys real dad, but he wants nothing to do with the kid.. Big bummer. Since we have custody of his daughters, my husbands mother in law wants custody of my husbands bio daughter, so were fighting her in court. The older daughter knows she isn't my husbands real daughter, but the boy doesn't. Ugh these kids I just really want them gone. Doctors say the boy has adhd and narcissistic personality disorder. They said the same about the girl. That's why my husbands mom wants his bio daughter, to protect her. But I can't find anyone in his step kids family who will take these kids. I feel like shit. I know these kids have no one but my husband and his dad, but fuck I don't want then around my kids. my hubby is suck a good person and tries to find sitters for all his kids so we can have family time with only our bio kids. But it's ruff. They're bio mom is a crack head living in as town an hour away with a women now pretendin g she has no kids and living it up being a dyke
The mother had two children
The mother had two children when my husband and her got together, one at twelve or thirteen. And over the years of they're relationship, he took on the older daughter we have custody of cuz she was two months old when they met. That's why he won't give her up. They had a daughter together, then she cheated and left him for six months, he didn't see either three of the kids. She finally came back 6 and a half months pregnant asking for him back. Soooo he took on her kids and a few years later. She got high and shot her oldest daughter in the chest on accident. A nd he took the blame, that's why he was away for two years. I'm do stressed.. I don't even care if you ladies from where ever part of the world you are. Look up Anastacia geboe and accidentally shooting and killing her daughter we live in a small town and every one knows she did it. But he took the blame cuz she said she'd stay and watch the other kids. Well when he finally went to prison for this whore, she took off on her kids and left them with his dad.. Were he's a Christian man and believes everything will work out.. But it isn't and I'm so frustrated
Sorry for all the spelling
Sorry for all the spelling errors. My auto correct sucks. But yeah I took on a crazy relationship. And I hate living here. Sorry just venting. He's such a good man. I mean he went to prison for her killing her own fucking kid. He's a Christian and really tries with all these kids. But I thought the mom was in the picture and took care of them. But now he's putting me through what she put him through. And my kid love there dad soooo much. But I don't love his step kids and he won't get rid of them... If I left, and he got weekend custody, but I don't want my kids around his son if I can't monitor them. That's my worst fear if I left. But thanks for letting me vent. I'll update all this loony shit I go though as it happens. But yeah I started as blog and told the story of her shooting her daughter and him taking the blame alot of people couldn't believe. But it's still on the internet. Look up Anastacia geboe and Kyle Brockie accidental shooting. I know were supposed to be anonymous, but I don't care, I hate that he took the blame for her. And left these kid with us everyone should know Anastacia geboe is as murder on the loose. He's also close with his step kids chid before she killed her kid she got pregnant and did so much drugs, her baby had heart problems and died. He was Kyle jr. I feel bad for the baby, but I couldn't even name my son after my husband cuz the baby she had from her drug use, and they guy a DNA test and the baby wasn't his, but his family all said I shouldn't name my baby jr. I have no one to blame but myself for falling in love with this man. He's loved by everyone in our town. Always helping people out. But he isn't helping me by having these unstable children around my kids