So DH came home that day and announced he'd deleted everything and printed off the pictures I wanted for me. Then said "I know that's not why you're upset, it's the way I acted; but I promise I didn't download those pictures and I'm sorry for being a Jerk"
"Why did you get so upset if they weren't yours? That's suspicious... what would you think if I'd acted that way?"
"Well I'm just stressed..... yard yada, beat around the bush with no straight answer"
Later I went through hid computer and and didn't find anything out of the ordinary.
I guess I'll just be on high alert for a while and see what happens.

On another note.... 3wks of SS10 visitation left. I was way over confident when I posted "I can do this"....
SS is an ass. He fights CONSTANTLY with BS4 over EVERYTHING. He doesn't speak to me if he wants something, he just stares at it. I've stopped asking him if he want said item.
Today I told him to wash his hands after he walked out of the bathroom without having flushed or washed up.
He huffed, rolled his eyes and then did as he was told with a scowl.
And the bed wetting.... EVERY NIGHT.... DH takes care of it, but still....
Speak of the devil... He just walked in.
"I made a Castle." ....awkward stare and silence....
DH"....did you want us to come see it?"
"Oh....uh....yeeeeeaaaaaaah?....It's...uh, Outside."
It's like living with a Christopher Walken wannabe.