Well I am still not happy with this situation. Im getting a full time job so that they can move out...I dont think bf thinks I am serious about his moving, but I am...I feel no respect with the older kid...that lives here...Ask him to take his shoes off when he comes into the living room, you think thats just too hard of a request because he never does..This carpet is off white and stains like mad...I just feel he has no respect for me and I am tired of knowing what is going on with his 4 kids...what a job dealing with bf's baggage all the time. I feel like my daughter isn't even welcome in my house. He's always asking what time she will leave, etc. I have one kid to his 4 and 2 of his live with us. I would rather pay my own bills, have some needed space for the sake of my own sanity! And have my daughter over as long as she dam well wants to. Can't wait til' the day they move out.
The only time they come out of their room is to eat. I feel they could actually help out a little around here, it would be nice...its an ordeal to ask them to rinse a freakin' plate after they eat...it's really a bit much for a 16 and 18 year old to have to be told to rinse their plate....Let me out!!!!:D