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Abandonment
Ahhh, yes. That word rears its ugly head again.
Before I go into that story, a quick recap of my weekend.
I'm chilling on my couch last night, watching some television, finishing up my breakfast-for-dinner when there is a loud knock at my door. Odd. I'm not expecting visitors. In a pandemic? Why, it's simply not advisable!
So after I stop clutching my pearls and fanning the vapors from my face, I open the door and see BM and the boys with their two week bags.
Ummmmmmmmmmm...
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Give Me Strength for Grad Weekend
Y'all, lend me your strength and positive energy because tomorrow is going to be a test of my wits and patience.
OSS graduates from high school.
They're doing a drive-thru ceremony.
It's only one car per family.
I'm sure you can add up the variables and come to the solution, but in case word problems weren't your strong suit (no worries, not mine, either), I will be sharing a vehicle with BM and her DH for a few hours.
And I can't pregame because I'm likely going to be driving so DH can watch and take pictures (my choice).
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OT - SF IS HOME!
He's home and doing well. Will do some rehab at home, but otherwise should be okay.
That's all I got. I'm so freaking relieved!
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OT - Good Thoughts and Prayers for My SF
I'm currently sitting in the parking lot of the hospital with my mom. My SF got rushed to the hospital with symptoms of a stroke. His blood pressure is really high, but his CT shows there's no bleed. Mom can't go inside, so we're just waiting for more info.
Please say a little prayer or share some good vibes!
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I Got a Happy Birthday!
The boys each texted me a happy birthday. This is the FIRST YEAR that they have wished me a happy birthday that wasn't prompted by DH.
I had the stupidest grin on my face. It's quite possible that someone else reminded them that it was my birthday (DH swears it wasn't him), but I'll take it!
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"You Put My Babies in a Closet?!"
Let's play a game!
Last night, we had a tornado warning. The town next to us (within 2 miles) got hit badly with either a tornado or high winds, causing building and large tree damage. So, DH and I cleaned out the closet we shelter in under the stairs. Since the boys are still with us (third week in a row, longest away from BM EVER), we told them to shelter in the closet with the dog. This lasted maybe 20 minutes before getting the all clear.
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The Visitation Verdict is In...
...And the boys stay with us for at least another week.
Bad news: BM claims she spiked a very low fever (below 100.4 F), so we will now be doing temperature checks on the boys.
Oh, and BM started a new job, too. Her timing is impecible.
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OT - WTF Parenting: Pandemic Edition
This is a rant that is very broad and very general about my hometown. I understand that there are families who are single parents and/or shoestring incomes for a variety of valid reasons that the following rant does not apply to.
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OTish - COVID-19 and Step Families
This is a serious post. I'm highly interested to hear and share some ideas for protecting ourselves and our loved one during this now-official pandemic.
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On this episode of "Will BM Eff OSS Over For College?"...
BM has STILL not filled out FAFSA. The excuse this time? OSS has been super busy with homework and hasn't had a chance to sit with her and do it.
YET, last week after school, they managed to go get senior pictures done. And she had them the previous weekend. If I remember correctly, FAFSA took like 30 minutes for me because I didn't have the financial stuff to input. Seems like a BS excuse to me, but whatever.