Yesterday, SO and I obtained a lawyer in regards to getting SD's SSN, since BM is still refusing to give it to him. While we are at it, SO figured he would get a few things changed from the original order, such as being able to claim SD every other year on taxes. As of now, BM claims every year even though SO has SD 50% of the time and pays child support. He is also going to get my name off of their custody order. As of now, BM has it that I can not be left alone with SD. Yet she can leave SD with every Tom, Dick, or Harry that she feels like leaving SD with.

https://womenwithworth.wordpress.com/2014/11/30/a-open-letter-to-my-daug...

I really enjoyed the comments on this letter. Especially the one where one woman tried to explain that a marriage should always come before the child's wants and an anonymous SD stated that children always come first.

BM picked up SD today from our house. SO and I had an amazing day with SD that had all of us super happy. When BM arrived, everything went to shit.

BM wants to put SD6 into karate. The classes have to be done twice a week. She wanted to put SD in Tuesday and Thursday night. We have SD on Thursday night, and she already takes gymnastics. The two classes start at the same time.

SD has been explaining how the world works. At least according to BM.

1) The tooth fairy will give more money at BM's house. So if SD loses her tooth at SO's house, she had better save it until she gets to BM's home, otherwise she will not get as much money from the tooth fairy. When SD asked her why this was true, BM's only response is "I don't know".

2) Blue cars get pulled over for speeding more than any other car. We recently purchased a new car, that is blue. SD loves the new car, and really likes the color. OF course BM must make it look inferior to her car.