DH was dragged into court by BM even after he had paycheck evaluated by lawyer and offered her the additional support out of court it is 21% in IL for one child. She reponded by saying she did not believe him. So DH was served and we had to get a lawyer. She does not have a lawyer. DH filled out all the paper work required and submitted copies of all Income tax statements for 3 years plus last three pay stubs. She will be able to view in court. In the meantime while we were on vacation she served his employer to send copies of his entire HR file to her. Thank goodness our lawyer stopped it an in fact stated it was now harassessment and she may be subject to fines. The stupid thing is, that if the supoena is squashed she will not be allowed to view any of the financial information. So at this point it has become just simply harassassment not about money. I think she reached a point where DH has stopped answering nasty texts and e mails and now she is trying a different route to get his attention. Its been 6 yrears and she still will not leave DH alone. AS soon as SS turns 18 we are telling her we want 0 contact going forward. SS is 16.5 years old now.
I wonder how many BMs regret the divorce years later after they are still alone and start acting like this. I hope this is her last hurrah cause I am sick of it. If I had known what I know now I would have waited to get married till SS was 18 and just lived with him.