Hi everyone, I am new to this site but am SOOOOOO glad i found it. I was driving to work this morning wondering why I am such a demon for not liking or wanting my husbands kids around. Here's the thing, we have been together for 3 years and I have a bio son 13y/o. He has "THE GIRLS" as he terms them, who are 6 and 10. From the start he tried to shield me from them because he was in another relationship after his divorce where that partner did not take to his kids. He is a great guy and honestly his kids are not bad kids. at all. which is one the of the problems. he acts like they are PERFECT and that my son is the reason for everything that gets broken or whatever in our house. My son lives with us full time and he and hubby have a good relationship. THE GIRLS come every other weekend and i get so annoyed that I too, find other things to do, etc. The girls are not self sufficient and very sheltered and spoiled from what i've observed. thye are still taking baths together which i find to be a no-no at that age and cant even run their own damn water!! They have no clue hwo to take a shower even! He cleans up everything after them and got mad at me for trying to teach them how to clean up a bathroom. I feel crazy becuase they dont do anything bad, I just feel like they are super dependent, clingy, spoiled and act as if they are babies. and he treats them as such. My son is no angel of course, he's a teenager BUT i let him know his rights/wrongs and try to teach him independence. The way that it is , I have no say so in trying to help thier growth and it is very frustrating. I am seeing behaviours of very needy girls who are constantly being treated like infants. if i voice my opinion on the subject, i'm mean and jealous of them! If i talk to them in a real way, not liek babies.. he tellS me to stop it because they are sensitive/ OMG!! HELP, am i crazy??