I haven't posted for a few months, but not much has changed. I am still disengaged almost completely. The only thing I continue to do for SD12 is pick her up from school (With DD7) Things have been okay. SD and I don't speak unless it's absolutely needed. She is still very emotionally screwed up. I don't think any amount of therapy is going to help her.

A few days ago I walked into our laundry room and SD had put her laundry hamper next to the washing machine. I am the one that does most of the laundry in our home and it doesn't bother me. But this did. Most of the time if something needs washing DD7 will ask me or tell me "Mommy, I'm out of jeans." Even my DS4 will say "Mommy, my favorite jammies are in the hamper, can you wash them for me please?" I am usually on top of the laundry around here, but somehow SD11 went through a ton of clothes in just a couple of days. Back to the point..

SD11 is one of those people who loves to try and make people jealous. For whatever reason, it seems to make her feel good. I don't understand the thought process of that. DD7 and DS4 aren't like that in any what so ever.
SD seems to enjoy coming back from weekends saying "Oh, I did this and that and they bought me alllll this stuff!" Usually, DD7 is happy for SD when SD gets something new.

I finally met with SD11 and her therapist. I didn't want to do it, but DH said I really need to do it. DH says that the therapist needs to hear what I have to say because I'm a piece to the puzzle. My concern this whole time is that SD is telling the therapist what she wants her to hear and know, but leaving out the real half of the stories. DH met with the therapist a few times as well in the past weeks and he says that now the therapist has a better understanding of the real situation. My concerns came true: SD was making DH and I out to be terrible people.