Yesterday, BM sent DH some texts messages that were pretty strange coming from such an unstable woman. These texts were SOOOO different from her "norm." They went like this:

BM: This is my new phone # please add it to SD's phone so I can stay in touch through texts. Or In case of emergency. It's a text only number, or if it's serious you can call [my friend I screwed over who hates me now]

DH: OK.

BM: And I'm assuming you won't object to me attending Muffins for Moms at SD's school.

DH: All contact with SD is to be supervised at such and such place.

BM: OMG, There are going to be tons of people there, DH. Please don't do this to SD, this is already so hard on her. I don't know why you are doing this!

BM: I don't know why you are doing this, DH. You KNOW I'm a good mother, DH. You know the supervised visits are completely ridiculous! You KNOW it's not going to be like this forever, DH.

DH: I didn't do this, you did. And I hope it's not like this forever. Oonce you get the help you need, we can move forward, but until then, things will stay the way they are.

BM: You're going to alienate your own daughter. I don't know why you want to punish our daughter! You have known me long enough to know that I would do anything for my children, DH. Don't do this to SD. You KNOW I'm a good mom. I have been going to [big hospital in our area] for help for the past three months, DH.

DH: I do know you're full of it. Thats funny cause in your declaration for your parents, you said you can't get any help or therapy because you don't have any benefits through DSHS.

BM: I guess I will have to take you to court.

DH: You do whatever you need to do. Please stop talking to me now.

BM: You've known me for a long time. You know I'm a good mom, though. I am getting help. I was only allowed to get help for 3 months, and now I'm starting all over for another 3 months through the state. I have no secrets and I don't know what crazy stories you've heard, but it's not true. You're hurting SD.

BM: I can't fathom this. I don't know why you're doing this to me. You've known me for so long. I don't understand why you want to have such a contencious relationship with the MOTHER of YOUR child!

I'm sure I left some things out, but that was pretty much how it went. There was something in those texts that made me wonder what time warp I entered. There was something that I couldn't put my finger on that made my stomach turn. Almost got the feeling she would try to get DH back. I'm not sure. But something in my gut told me to beware for some reason.