For about 2 months we've known that BM was working her courage up to ask for more CS. SD11 is starting middle school next week and will begin riding the bus to and from school back to her house and will be there for an additional 1.5 hours each day. Apparently she thinks that means her bills are going to be up by $200. Hahahahahaha. WTF does she think SD is going to be doing for less than 2 hours? Build an atom bomb? She complained about how she was having to pay for this and that (NORMAL costs of having a child). Woe is me, I'm a single mom blah blah blah.
DH: "Well, what the hell have you been using the $400/month I give you (often times early)?
BM: You're such an ass. I have to put a roof over her head, have electricity, cable, food, etc.
DH: So.....you wouldn't have to do that if you didn't have a child?
BM: Well...but.......
DH: Don't EVEN try to start that shit with me. I give you $400 each month for DXXXX, NOT you. If you misappropriate (she didnt' know what that meant) those funds, it is NOT my problem. (SD has told us that her bank acct is overdrawn by like $500).
BM: THIS IS ALL YOUR FAULT...IF IT WEREN'T FOR YOU I WOULDN'T BE HERE IN THIS POSITION (meaning having a child and being a mother)

Side note--they were never married and she was a "friend" that occasionally ended up drunk and naked in his bed. He highly suspects she got knocked up on purpose seeing as that is what all of her friends told DH. He also found that she was using out of date birth control (by YEARS).

Granted, this is taking place in the middle school parking lot. My presence would have made everybody's life hell so I stayed at home. This is all DH's version, I'm willing to bet that BM doesn't repeat the story the same way...

THANK GOD SD didn't hear any of this, BUT she did ask if she could stay at daddy's house that night....BM FLIPPED HER SHIT!!!

I'm proud of DH for telling her like it is. I'm not sure how he does it but he seems able to remain calm while the troll is dancing and shouting all around him making a fool out of herself in puplic. She's already pissed off the teachers. Should be an interesting year to say the least.