I don't normally have issue when it comes to skids weekend, but I've been moody and pissy all week with working OT, class, and my internship, and SO ticked me off one day so I had to segregate myself from him so as to not blow a problem out of proportion (we did talk it over once I calmed down and he had given me space to do so).

My heart hurts for my exH tonight he had to hear from me his exw (me) that his father is in the hospital, his health due to a rare disease has not been well, he now has a large blood clot in his leg. To add to that his SM has had heart problems as well recently. She now has an aneurism in her brain the doctors are concerned it may burst and surgery is scheduled to try and fix it but it is not in a good or easy place it's risky. He only knew her health wasn't well and though I was told to keep it to myself how could I not make sure the father of my children knows this.

SO is wanting joint custody I've found several really good everything spelled out parenting plans that will benefit SO and the kids and help keep BM in check. Here's the question what are things you've found the hardest about joint/shared and what do you wish had been addressed in a parenting plan or in court. Kinda what would of been done diffrent with hindsite?

SO met with my lawyer today to restart this whole divorce/custody thing again (previous divorce was closed due to a lot of stupidity and dumb lawyers who shouldn't have a license to practice) My attorney set SO's retainer at a price he can afford and he's a good lawyer. BM got a new lawyer and I already had some insight to that ones currant situation (no paralegals, swamped with cases etc) because her son is the VP of my company.